"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi, I am going to Spain for vacation late may, was wondering if yall had any tips or heads ups on the senoritas and how to relate to them and what they may think of americans and all that. I want to def bang some of these gorgeous spanish women
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You had better be prepared to hold your own because most of the best natural DJs of the world hail from Spain and Italy. Don't try to compete with them, learn their ways...
 

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Minneapolis eh?, thats where im orignally from..
well anyway I must say thats an interesting point that I'll take note of, but really doesn't help me much.
 

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Just go out there and have some fun man. When I vacationed there a few years ago, I had the tourist glow going on. It's like you're so excited to be in a new place, exploring stuff that you just radiate this aura of confidence and happiness. No girl in her right mind can ignore that sh*t.

If you're really smooth, the senoritas won't mind retarded 7th grade spanish. If all else fails, act like you are rich and are looking for a beautiful Spanish wife :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shizam, **** any senoritas while u were vacationing in spain?
...a friend of mine whos been to spain and fluent, said many girls there will know more english then i do spanish..so that i sholdn't have too many prob with that
haha i hope so..
yeah in my mind I have this idea where to them I will seem unique, and different - the same way i seem them as exotic perhaps they do too?
perhaps the chicas will want to brag to their chicas about how awesome it as to be slammed by a handsome american
how much diff are they from american women?
less stuck up..more?
less primiscuous...more?
either way im going to have fun... but I wouldn't mind having a few intimately wonderful nights with some bonita spanish girls
 

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arealman said:
Minneapolis eh?, thats where im orignally from..
well anyway I must say thats an interesting point that I'll take note of, but really doesn't help me much.
In a nutshell, they can smell bullsh1t a mile away. If you are going to drop on line, make sure that it's original, specific and no beating around the bush with the games that you have to play with American women. Be confident, ****y and specific.
 
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