Postmalonelistener
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 13, 2020
- Messages
- 146
- Reaction score
- 89
- Age
- 35
Just saw my Insta feed, two more dudes from my high school came out as gay, dude what is up with the culture of this city lol.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.