"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Southerners here, tell me whats up with Georgia, its women, and its people.

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I live in North Dakota, and just change the good ole frat boy to some bearded bum that hunts and drives a truck. Same **** different setting. I know an Asian guy that pulls 9s in Europe too.
I've had enough experiences in Fargo and known enough black, Hispanic, and even Asian and Indian guys to know that is not true at all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Texas is great. I have a buddy who lives in a small town outside of Atlanta and he's one of the most amazing guys I know. He genuinely cares about you and your well being, and overall a fantastic human being. Plus he's a real DJ.

I've been to ATL, and havn't noticed this. I think like any city it depends on location, time, what's going on, etc.
All cities will have their exceptions but generally speaking, from my experience and that of many others, Atlanta is flat out horrible and the women there are hideous.
 

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I've had enough experiences in Fargo and known enough black, Hispanic, and even Asian and Indian guys to know that is not true at all.
Yep been to fargo, hung out with a bunch of girls in fargo. They don't want a black guy with a career or business. They want some black guy that resembles the black guys on televtision that rap, play ball. and etc. The worst girls I have ever met in my life live in Fargo. I would rather game in Atlanta than in fargo lol. I hate Atlanta too, so this isn't something I"m joking with his is where our races differ and I give Asians credit on being a model minority.
 

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Yep been to fargo, hung out with a bunch of girls in fargo. They don't want a black guy with a career or business. They want some black guy that resembles the black guys on televtision that rap, play ball. and etc. The worst girls I have ever met in my life live in Fargo. I would rather game in Atlanta than in fargo lol. I hate Atlanta too, so this isn't something I"m joking with his is where our races differ and I give Asians credit on being a model minority.
You're complaining about girls not wanting to **** nerds. Welcome to the real world Dhoul, at this rate I think you are doomed to be sexless for a long time unless you change your view. I think you're on the wrong forum, you come off as the husband material type that girls marry at 30, the prototypical nice guy.

When girls are ****ing white guys, they aren't ****ing computer geeks or "stable" types, they're going after douchey frat bros and losers without a future.

Same with other races, nice guys or guys who come off as nice finish last.

Dhoul, I think you need to work on your career, wait till you have that handled, and get right to marriage. You are not meant for the don juan lifestyle, you have nice guy written all over you. You should just get right to LTRs and go for foreign women while you're at it, you are just not cut out for the game, you just aren't.
 

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I disagree with that, the trick is to just go to areas where there are a lot of white girls to go around. I think Atlanta (and GA in general) is one of the worst places for guys who like white girls because there aren't many to go around, at least half are overweight, and the competition for the remaining ones is fierce. You're going against entitled "good ol boys" and old money frat boys for the same hottie who would hardly register on the radar in a place like Florida or a very white state.
Florida?? I lived in Florida several times for several years (Orlando UCF area, Lake Mary/Sanford and Melbourne are). You have to have a boat to get a date in Florida. A nice boat. Twice I moved from Florida to Texas where I lived in three cities (Dallas, Houston, Austin). It only takes a few minutes to notice the difference. Ask a gorgeous girl in Texas for directions and she'll draw you a map and spend 10 minutes explaining it. I never got a strippers phone number in Florida. In Texas I got no less than 20 numbers and half a dozen still write to me years later.

Example:
Florida: Dating a 47 year old when I was 41, and feeling lucky.
Texas: Dating a 19 year old when I was 41, and (at age 43) leaving her for a younger woman.

From what I read, Savannah has the most single, young women in the nation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're complaining about girls not wanting to **** nerds. Welcome to the real world Dhoul, at this rate I think you are doomed to be sexless for a long time unless you change your view. I think you're on the wrong forum, you come off as the husband material type that girls marry at 30, the prototypical nice guy.

When girls are ****ing white guys, they aren't ****ing computer geeks or "stable" types, they're going after douchey frat bros and losers without a future.

Same with other races, nice guys or guys who come off as nice finish last.

Dhoul, I think you need to work on your career, wait till you have that handled, and get right to marriage. You are not meant for the don juan lifestyle, you have nice guy written all over you. You should just get right to LTRs and go for foreign women while you're at it, you are just not cut out for the game, you just aren't.
You are right. I'm not in college anymore so I don't have the time, dignity, or patience to screw around with hoes anymore. I've met 10 girls since I moved here and they have all been duds. I met one girl that had a career, but she was super crazy and feminist af. I'm not a nice guy at heart, but girls see me as one because I don't dress like a bad boy and I'm quiet. Once women get to know me, they think I'm a piece of **** ******* or something lol. I think my only hope is to leave the country or just wait for something to fall from the sky ha.
 

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Florida?? I lived in Florida several times for several years (Orlando UCF area, Lake Mary/Sanford and Melbourne are). You have to have a boat to get a date in Florida. A nice boat. Twice I moved from Florida to Texas where I lived in three cities (Dallas, Houston, Austin). It only takes a few minutes to notice the difference. Ask a gorgeous girl in Texas for directions and she'll draw you a map and spend 10 minutes explaining it. I never got a strippers phone number in Florida. In Texas I got no less than 20 numbers and half a dozen still write to me years later.

Example:
Florida: Dating a 47 year old when I was 41, and feeling lucky.
Texas: Dating a 19 year old when I was 41, and (at age 43) leaving her for a younger woman.

From what I read, Savannah has the most single, young women in the nation.
That has not been my experience at all. I found it relatively easy to get with white girls in their 20s when I was in Tampa, found that me being Asian actually helped me out a lot there. Then again, I had it somewhat good in Texas too.
 

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Not if you preach your SJW crap. They get icicles on it.

And you've lived in how many states?

I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities. They are not all the same.

Show us photos of your women. I'm talking about gorgeous, blonde haired, blue eyed women, age 24. And I'm 45, not 27. When I was 27 I was dating gorgeous girls who were 17-18.
 

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Not if you preach your SJW crap. They get icicles on it.

And you've lived in how many states?

I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities. They are not all the same.

Show us photos of your women. I'm talking about gorgeous, blonde haired, blue eyed women, age 24. And I'm 45, not 27. When I was 27 I was dating gorgeous girls who were 17-18.
Around 8 or so.

I am not going to share photos because I try to keep my real life and persona on here private but from my experience, Florida girls are far from shallow. They are not NEARLY as bad as California girls and especially not Georgia girls (who are generally ugly as **** yet still have massive egos).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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