I've had enough experiences in Fargo and known enough black, Hispanic, and even Asian and Indian guys to know that is not true at all.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Southerners here, tell me whats up with Georgia, its women, and its people.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
All cities will have their exceptions but generally speaking, from my experience and that of many others, Atlanta is flat out horrible and the women there are hideous.
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Yep been to fargo, hung out with a bunch of girls in fargo. They don't want a black guy with a career or business. They want some black guy that resembles the black guys on televtision that rap, play ball. and etc. The worst girls I have ever met in my life live in Fargo. I would rather game in Atlanta than in fargo lol. I hate Atlanta too, so this isn't something I"m joking with his is where our races differ and I give Asians credit on being a model minority.
You're complaining about girls not wanting to **** nerds. Welcome to the real world Dhoul, at this rate I think you are doomed to be sexless for a long time unless you change your view. I think you're on the wrong forum, you come off as the husband material type that girls marry at 30, the prototypical nice guy.
When girls are ****ing white guys, they aren't ****ing computer geeks or "stable" types, they're going after douchey frat bros and losers without a future.
Same with other races, nice guys or guys who come off as nice finish last.
Dhoul, I think you need to work on your career, wait till you have that handled, and get right to marriage. You are not meant for the don juan lifestyle, you have nice guy written all over you. You should just get right to LTRs and go for foreign women while you're at it, you are just not cut out for the game, you just aren't.
Florida?? I lived in Florida several times for several years (Orlando UCF area, Lake Mary/Sanford and Melbourne are). You have to have a boat to get a date in Florida. A nice boat. Twice I moved from Florida to Texas where I lived in three cities (Dallas, Houston, Austin). It only takes a few minutes to notice the difference. Ask a gorgeous girl in Texas for directions and she'll draw you a map and spend 10 minutes explaining it. I never got a strippers phone number in Florida. In Texas I got no less than 20 numbers and half a dozen still write to me years later.
Example:
Florida: Dating a 47 year old when I was 41, and feeling lucky.
Texas: Dating a 19 year old when I was 41, and (at age 43) leaving her for a younger woman.
From what I read, Savannah has the most single, young women in the nation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You are right. I'm not in college anymore so I don't have the time, dignity, or patience to screw around with hoes anymore. I've met 10 girls since I moved here and they have all been duds. I met one girl that had a career, but she was super crazy and feminist af. I'm not a nice guy at heart, but girls see me as one because I don't dress like a bad boy and I'm quiet. Once women get to know me, they think I'm a piece of **** ******* or something lol. I think my only hope is to leave the country or just wait for something to fall from the sky ha.
That has not been my experience at all. I found it relatively easy to get with white girls in their 20s when I was in Tampa, found that me being Asian actually helped me out a lot there. Then again, I had it somewhat good in Texas too.
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I find it relatively easy to get with chicks anywhere.
Not if you preach your SJW crap. They get icicles on it.
And you've lived in how many states?
I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities. They are not all the same.
Show us photos of your women. I'm talking about gorgeous, blonde haired, blue eyed women, age 24. And I'm 45, not 27. When I was 27 I was dating gorgeous girls who were 17-18.
And you've lived in how many states?
I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities. They are not all the same.
Show us photos of your women. I'm talking about gorgeous, blonde haired, blue eyed women, age 24. And I'm 45, not 27. When I was 27 I was dating gorgeous girls who were 17-18.
Around 8 or so.
I am not going to share photos because I try to keep my real life and persona on here private but from my experience, Florida girls are far from shallow. They are not NEARLY as bad as California girls and especially not Georgia girls (who are generally ugly as **** yet still have massive egos).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.