"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sources of Body Language

defiancy

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ok guys...I have a bit of sources for body language..and I wonder if there is more sources...post them so we can have a collection of this because body language is important in ways

Sources one may use:

Search in the Dj site ( Duh)

www.fastseduction.com/guide

www.becomeaplayer.com (go to body language section)

Err..the most I found is in the DJ archives
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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defiancy

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I thought this should be renewed for a easy way to find a source of body language
 

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I dont agree with some of they body language tricks on the player site like if legs are crossed away shes not interested i have not found this to be true once.
 

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True, the crossed leg gesture rarely tells anything as crossing her legs is meant to be ladylike so most women do it anyway and will turn to whoever she is talking to. Crossing the arms, however, is always a very negative sign (unless it's done because she's cold).

Anyway, I would like to see more material on body language. There is a lot on this site, but it's very scattered.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look on amazon for books.

The most interesting and usefull body language concepts for me personally were:

Licking lips, hand thruw hair: gives away your sexual intent :)

Body angle: direct means confrontation/sexual interest. Standing at an angle/side of eachother is more relaxed. Keep someone to your right side.

Open body language: open your palms, pointing your chest towards someone, don't frown, open eyes, look interested. No blocking gestures; any kind of barrier you create for youself with hands/objects etc. Nod slowly and smile, but not to much.

No hand to mouth movements: it always seems sketchy if you scratch your nose, ear, eyes, neck etc.

Eyes are for attention, head direction is for interest, full attention with upperbody. If you don't like something being said, turn away your body, works awesome.

Well these are just some I found interesting. And all the (now) obvious signals women send out, but they can't really be trusted all the time.
 
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