"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sources of Body Language

defiancy

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ok guys...I have a bit of sources for body language..and I wonder if there is more sources...post them so we can have a collection of this because body language is important in ways

Sources one may use:

Search in the Dj site ( Duh)

www.fastseduction.com/guide

www.becomeaplayer.com (go to body language section)

Err..the most I found is in the DJ archives
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought this should be renewed for a easy way to find a source of body language
 

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I dont agree with some of they body language tricks on the player site like if legs are crossed away shes not interested i have not found this to be true once.
 

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True, the crossed leg gesture rarely tells anything as crossing her legs is meant to be ladylike so most women do it anyway and will turn to whoever she is talking to. Crossing the arms, however, is always a very negative sign (unless it's done because she's cold).

Anyway, I would like to see more material on body language. There is a lot on this site, but it's very scattered.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Look on amazon for books.

The most interesting and usefull body language concepts for me personally were:

Licking lips, hand thruw hair: gives away your sexual intent :)

Body angle: direct means confrontation/sexual interest. Standing at an angle/side of eachother is more relaxed. Keep someone to your right side.

Open body language: open your palms, pointing your chest towards someone, don't frown, open eyes, look interested. No blocking gestures; any kind of barrier you create for youself with hands/objects etc. Nod slowly and smile, but not to much.

No hand to mouth movements: it always seems sketchy if you scratch your nose, ear, eyes, neck etc.

Eyes are for attention, head direction is for interest, full attention with upperbody. If you don't like something being said, turn away your body, works awesome.

Well these are just some I found interesting. And all the (now) obvious signals women send out, but they can't really be trusted all the time.
 
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