"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Source of Confidence...
- Thread starter Cod3r
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I wasn't tryin to be mean, it's just I wouldn't listen to your advice ever even if what you said was true since you been lookin for ***** for a lifetime and still haven't got it, you set ya standards too high or what?
Last Man Standing
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HAHA, don't believe everything that you read kid - you have to put it in context -- I was joking with Dj Nasman on his thread because he was a "know-it-all - read the whole thread!Nexxus said:
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr_knowit_all
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Nice looking dude? The guy looks like a fvcking transvestite. LOLazanon said:
And he's the one getting all the hot, white tail? Where was the "hot white chick" in the pic? I want to apologize though, I was wrong. You don't look like Urkel, this bytch looks like "Huggie bear" from Starsky and Hutch...
This is my pic>>>>http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311
azanon said:
He is not really goodlooking he is a 6 at best, but is more like a 5. Mr know it all is 8 face 10 body, so he is a 9.
Not too sound like a hater but I have been in the weightlifting game for years and no one can get as big as him without doing steroids. I am sure he will never admit it, then again he is a marine and the tough guy so he will tell us because he doesn't care what everyone thinks. He may admit that he took deca, dbol and test
Microphone Fiend
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LOL @ the dude talkin about how his confidence fluctuates immensely and then a couple cats come in here and try to insult him as much as possible...C'est la vie
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cod3r ,
You aren't that good looking first of all.
Around a 6 as other people said. Its best not to think about your looks all the time.... Thats why your confidence fluctuates, because you aren't that good looking...
But to be more constructive and more helpful to your post.
You need to do unique things, to really boost your confidence
The most important things to build confidence as a MAN are listed below.
1) power
2) money
3) respect
If you become some senator, you will feel real confident.
If you get a gold medal at the olympics for boxing, you will feel real confident.
If you make $2M , you will feel very confident.
you will notice I do not put education in the list above.
Being highly educated is not unique nor is it a confidence builder, You and 100,000,000 other students are all getting a college degree.
It is not unique.
Education is not a MANS confidence builder, It is only a requirement.
Hope this helps you
I can see why you would say that (Burly, tough guy marine). He's your physical opposite. Fortunately, or unfortunately, some girls like the former, some like the latter. Its just not a strong discriminating factor for them though.Mr_knowit_all said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys want to be really big, so i can understand your mistaken rating for Cod3r. I agree with your rating for Mr. know it all though.lookyoung said:
Looks though is just a start; one can open their mouth and say the wrong thing and then it dont mean jack s***
Mr_knowit_all
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azanon said:
There's always an exception to the rule, but generally if one wants to be successful, education is a requirement.
Just realize its not quite as rare as you might think. Those are billionairre examples. But I personally know a handfull of individuals that found a niche, exploited it (small business owner), and now pull in 6 figures+. At least 1 in 10 people smart enough to go to college, are innovative enough to not even need it. For these select people, they actually see college as a crutch to make it in life.Mr_knowit_all said:
I'm not so innovative though and needed my masters degree (crutch) to pull in a decent paycheck * ahem *
Azanon
(edit) BTW, if we ever have a heated debate though, i'm going to let you win. Dam* you look big, lol.
BustedKnucks
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.