"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Source of Confidence...
- Thread starter Cod3r
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I wasn't tryin to be mean, it's just I wouldn't listen to your advice ever even if what you said was true since you been lookin for ***** for a lifetime and still haven't got it, you set ya standards too high or what?
Last Man Standing
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HAHA, don't believe everything that you read kid - you have to put it in context -- I was joking with Dj Nasman on his thread because he was a "know-it-all - read the whole thread!Nexxus said:
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr_knowit_all
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Nice looking dude? The guy looks like a fvcking transvestite. LOLazanon said:
And he's the one getting all the hot, white tail? Where was the "hot white chick" in the pic? I want to apologize though, I was wrong. You don't look like Urkel, this bytch looks like "Huggie bear" from Starsky and Hutch...
This is my pic>>>>http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311
azanon said:
He is not really goodlooking he is a 6 at best, but is more like a 5. Mr know it all is 8 face 10 body, so he is a 9.
Not too sound like a hater but I have been in the weightlifting game for years and no one can get as big as him without doing steroids. I am sure he will never admit it, then again he is a marine and the tough guy so he will tell us because he doesn't care what everyone thinks. He may admit that he took deca, dbol and test
Microphone Fiend
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LOL @ the dude talkin about how his confidence fluctuates immensely and then a couple cats come in here and try to insult him as much as possible...C'est la vie
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cod3r ,
You aren't that good looking first of all.
Around a 6 as other people said. Its best not to think about your looks all the time.... Thats why your confidence fluctuates, because you aren't that good looking...
But to be more constructive and more helpful to your post.
You need to do unique things, to really boost your confidence
The most important things to build confidence as a MAN are listed below.
1) power
2) money
3) respect
If you become some senator, you will feel real confident.
If you get a gold medal at the olympics for boxing, you will feel real confident.
If you make $2M , you will feel very confident.
you will notice I do not put education in the list above.
Being highly educated is not unique nor is it a confidence builder, You and 100,000,000 other students are all getting a college degree.
It is not unique.
Education is not a MANS confidence builder, It is only a requirement.
Hope this helps you
I can see why you would say that (Burly, tough guy marine). He's your physical opposite. Fortunately, or unfortunately, some girls like the former, some like the latter. Its just not a strong discriminating factor for them though.Mr_knowit_all said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys want to be really big, so i can understand your mistaken rating for Cod3r. I agree with your rating for Mr. know it all though.lookyoung said:
Looks though is just a start; one can open their mouth and say the wrong thing and then it dont mean jack s***
Mr_knowit_all
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azanon said:
There's always an exception to the rule, but generally if one wants to be successful, education is a requirement.
Just realize its not quite as rare as you might think. Those are billionairre examples. But I personally know a handfull of individuals that found a niche, exploited it (small business owner), and now pull in 6 figures+. At least 1 in 10 people smart enough to go to college, are innovative enough to not even need it. For these select people, they actually see college as a crutch to make it in life.Mr_knowit_all said:
I'm not so innovative though and needed my masters degree (crutch) to pull in a decent paycheck * ahem *
Azanon
(edit) BTW, if we ever have a heated debate though, i'm going to let you win. Dam* you look big, lol.
BustedKnucks
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.