"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sosuave spam attack

Taviii

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Do you guys remember the Fa1 Fa2...Fa7 guy that spamed the forum with KKK text a few days ago?

Well I think he is gonna attack again. I just saw that Ru1 registered, and Ru7 is activating registration :)

It sounds fishy to me :)

Edit: Yeah I just checked the members list and Ru1 to Ru7 all registered today. And if you look at his profile pictures he puts pictures related to the "Mafia" like last time

Watch out moderators!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Nice work Detective.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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Go team!! :cheer:
 

Create Reality

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I can't stand racists, thanks for cleaning it all up before I even saw it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diplomatic_lies

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Haha, that was like a pre-emptive attack! :up:
 

spider_007

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It would probably be a good idea if we all start taking responsability (as Sosuave members) and start keeping a close eye on the new members (bottom of main index page), especially since the guy is determined to shut the forum down, and has struck again.
 

Tomatoes

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Yeah nice work guys but he has struck again. Surely there is some way to stop him.....Ban him by physical IP address....Redlist his email accounts used....


One thing.....he wont shut sosuave down!

Sarge On!
 

Microphone Fiend

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all this guy wants is attention. Im all for the proposed limit on threads made by a person in a day. Most of the time the 2nd thread a person makes a day is just complainin about a thread that got deleted. If people get limited to the amount they can post on the internet, I wouldnt call it a bad thing...

Really though the threads dont affect me. I just have to click page 2 to get to what is page one.....oooohhhhhhhhhh the agony!!!! :moon:
 

Le Parisien

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I don't know if the moderators have thought about this: how about banning his IP?

I don't know if he's using a fixed IP or a dynamic one, but I'm sure you mods can see it. Even if he's using a dynamic one, everytime there's an "attack", just erase everything that has been registered/posted recently using the attacking IP and seeing his "work" erased within seconds will only discourage him from a future attack. Plus you can put a temporary ban on that IP for a few days, it also works pretty well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Morphiex

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Le Parisien said:
I don't know if the moderators have thought about this: how about banning his IP?

I don't know if he's using a fixed IP or a dynamic one, but I'm sure you mods can see it. Even if he's using a dynamic one, everytime there's an "attack", just erase everything that has been registered/posted recently using the attacking IP and seeing his "work" erased within seconds will only discourage him from a future attack. Plus you can put a temporary ban on that IP for a few days, it also works pretty well.
only the admin can ban his ip , unless he has given some other mod the power to acsess the admin board... but sicne the admin only visits the board liek maby once a year there is almost no chance that someone can ban his ip....
 

Le Parisien

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Morphiex said:
only the admin can ban his ip , unless he has given some other mod the power to acsess the admin board... but sicne the admin only visits the board liek maby once a year there is almost no chance that someone can ban his ip....
Are you sure? If it's the case, then the system is NOT very well designed. Why giving mods the ability to ban usernames while they can't ban IPs, it's simply useless. On all the boards I've seen so far, any spamming equals at least a few days of IP ban.
 

TheVirtualMind

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He uses a proxy IP (in other words, his IP changes) so he can't really be IP banned. We do our best to keep his garbage off of here. I think we need to just by him a puppy or something...
 

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How about we just send him to Compton?
 

Bad_Lil'Pixie

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I bet $500 imaginary DJ dollars that it's a chick group.

One of you guys went and played a feminist chick and ratted the site out didn't you????

Come on, man up, who did it?

No, I know what it is!!!!! KarmaSutra, you are to blame, you did it, you annouced your engagement and the 1000's of b1tches that missed out are revolting!!! We are doomed, doomed I say!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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