"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sosuave spam attack

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Taviii

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Do you guys remember the Fa1 Fa2...Fa7 guy that spamed the forum with KKK text a few days ago?

Well I think he is gonna attack again. I just saw that Ru1 registered, and Ru7 is activating registration :)

It sounds fishy to me :)

Edit: Yeah I just checked the members list and Ru1 to Ru7 all registered today. And if you look at his profile pictures he puts pictures related to the "Mafia" like last time

Watch out moderators!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Nice work Detective.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go team!! :cheer:
 
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Create Reality

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I can't stand racists, thanks for cleaning it all up before I even saw it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diplomatic_lies

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Haha, that was like a pre-emptive attack! :up:
 
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spider_007

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It would probably be a good idea if we all start taking responsability (as Sosuave members) and start keeping a close eye on the new members (bottom of main index page), especially since the guy is determined to shut the forum down, and has struck again.
 
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Yeah nice work guys but he has struck again. Surely there is some way to stop him.....Ban him by physical IP address....Redlist his email accounts used....


One thing.....he wont shut sosuave down!

Sarge On!
 
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Microphone Fiend

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all this guy wants is attention. Im all for the proposed limit on threads made by a person in a day. Most of the time the 2nd thread a person makes a day is just complainin about a thread that got deleted. If people get limited to the amount they can post on the internet, I wouldnt call it a bad thing...

Really though the threads dont affect me. I just have to click page 2 to get to what is page one.....oooohhhhhhhhhh the agony!!!! :moon:
 
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I don't know if the moderators have thought about this: how about banning his IP?

I don't know if he's using a fixed IP or a dynamic one, but I'm sure you mods can see it. Even if he's using a dynamic one, everytime there's an "attack", just erase everything that has been registered/posted recently using the attacking IP and seeing his "work" erased within seconds will only discourage him from a future attack. Plus you can put a temporary ban on that IP for a few days, it also works pretty well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Le Parisien said:
I don't know if the moderators have thought about this: how about banning his IP?

I don't know if he's using a fixed IP or a dynamic one, but I'm sure you mods can see it. Even if he's using a dynamic one, everytime there's an "attack", just erase everything that has been registered/posted recently using the attacking IP and seeing his "work" erased within seconds will only discourage him from a future attack. Plus you can put a temporary ban on that IP for a few days, it also works pretty well.
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only the admin can ban his ip , unless he has given some other mod the power to acsess the admin board... but sicne the admin only visits the board liek maby once a year there is almost no chance that someone can ban his ip....
 
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Morphiex said:
only the admin can ban his ip , unless he has given some other mod the power to acsess the admin board... but sicne the admin only visits the board liek maby once a year there is almost no chance that someone can ban his ip....
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Are you sure? If it's the case, then the system is NOT very well designed. Why giving mods the ability to ban usernames while they can't ban IPs, it's simply useless. On all the boards I've seen so far, any spamming equals at least a few days of IP ban.
 
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He uses a proxy IP (in other words, his IP changes) so he can't really be IP banned. We do our best to keep his garbage off of here. I think we need to just by him a puppy or something...
 
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How about we just send him to Compton?
 
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Bad_Lil'Pixie

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I bet $500 imaginary DJ dollars that it's a chick group.

One of you guys went and played a feminist chick and ratted the site out didn't you????

Come on, man up, who did it?

No, I know what it is!!!!! KarmaSutra, you are to blame, you did it, you annouced your engagement and the 1000's of b1tches that missed out are revolting!!! We are doomed, doomed I say!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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