"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Sosuave software? Post feature requests here!

mikeyb

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2007
Messages
472
Reaction score
16
Age
38
Location
UK
War Against Betaism said:
Sounds like a unique idea, if it's something you do in your spare time I don't see the harm in it. Some people in this topic are people harsh to the guy; it's not like he's sacrificing seeing women for this game.

...

So after you're done researching, you should gather some people on these boards to discuss how the scenarios would play out.

Thanks, that's very helpful. Focusing on responses to common situations a man would face seems to be a consensus among the guys who have replied, and a lot of threads in the DJ discussion forum among others are questions regarding situations, so some sort of generalization would definitely be useful. This is much better than my original idea.


And to the guys trying to lecture me, I've gone from being a hopeless virgin to being confident around women, hooking up a couple times, and getting a girlfriend that I'm happy with in less than a year. Mostly thanks to this forum. I want to apply my skills as a programmer to make it easier for other guys to do the same. So stop hating.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top