"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mikeyb

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War Against Betaism said:
Sounds like a unique idea, if it's something you do in your spare time I don't see the harm in it. Some people in this topic are people harsh to the guy; it's not like he's sacrificing seeing women for this game.

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So after you're done researching, you should gather some people on these boards to discuss how the scenarios would play out.

Thanks, that's very helpful. Focusing on responses to common situations a man would face seems to be a consensus among the guys who have replied, and a lot of threads in the DJ discussion forum among others are questions regarding situations, so some sort of generalization would definitely be useful. This is much better than my original idea.


And to the guys trying to lecture me, I've gone from being a hopeless virgin to being confident around women, hooking up a couple times, and getting a girlfriend that I'm happy with in less than a year. Mostly thanks to this forum. I want to apply my skills as a programmer to make it easier for other guys to do the same. So stop hating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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