"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuave Poster appreciation thread: Mike32ct

djjizzyjeff

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It might be a good thing to post not just private reps but have a thread a week etc. dedicated to ONE current posting So Suave member.

I'd like to start off by nominating Mike32ct for the first choice in a possible history of new and or existing users who really make SS worthwhile.

From your posting history you seem like a really cool dude, give great advice and need to realize you would make a damn good catch for ANY chick who's worth it. No matter what you may believe a few dopey broads might think.

Mike I sincerely wish you the best in life dude. And I'm sure there are a lot of posters who'd agree you are one cool azz mofo! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP- as much as its a lovely idea - your nose has turned brown. ;)
 

Mike32ct

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djjizzyjeff said:
It might be a good thing to post not just private reps but have a thread a week etc. dedicated to ONE current posting So Suave member.

I'd like to start off by nominating Mike32ct for the first choice in a possible history of new and or existing users who really make SS worthwhile.

Wow. Thank you. :D

From your posting history you seem like a really cool dude, give great advice and need to realize you would make a damn good catch for ANY chick who's worth it. No matter what you may believe a few dopey broads might think.

There are no dopey broads in the northeast. They are the BEST quality women in the world. Ask them, and they'll tell you :crackup:

All kidding aside, I really appreciate this.


Mike I sincerely wish you the best in life dude. And I'm sure there are a lot of posters who'd agree you are one cool azz mofo! :up:
Thanks again man. I'm flattered :cheer:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Danger said:
Hey you two, stop lip-locking. This is fight club dammit.
You arent supposed to talk about it!

FIRST AND SECOND RULES derp derp derp!!
 

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Mike32 hasn't killed himself yet. Which is keeping him in the running to get laid eventually.
 

GotED?

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Espi said:
C'mon...nobody likes to focus on positive shiat. The news makes news because it's usually BAD news...or the THREAT of bad news.

When I logon here I prefer CONFLICT and DRAMA and thinking that I can help curtail DISASTERS.

I like Mike32ct, but goddam guys no need to go around flattering each other like this. That's what the freaking REP is for.

Kinda makes me cringe.

ESPI is getting emotional and showing his feelings.

Time to +1 rep him!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This type of thread might be useful if the OP addresses specific ideas, stories, or analysis that the "honoree" has brought to the table in recent posts.

Rather than just giving him a public handjob in vague terms. Ya know?
 

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Zarky said:
This type of thread might be useful if the OP addresses specific ideas, stories, or analysis that the "honoree" has brought to the table in recent posts.

Rather than just giving him a public handjob in vague terms. Ya know?

no need for insults
 

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I've been lurking this site for a long time, and I definitely agree that mike32ct posts some money.
 
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