"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SoSuave Poster appreciation thread: Mike32ct

djjizzyjeff

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It might be a good thing to post not just private reps but have a thread a week etc. dedicated to ONE current posting So Suave member.

I'd like to start off by nominating Mike32ct for the first choice in a possible history of new and or existing users who really make SS worthwhile.

From your posting history you seem like a really cool dude, give great advice and need to realize you would make a damn good catch for ANY chick who's worth it. No matter what you may believe a few dopey broads might think.

Mike I sincerely wish you the best in life dude. And I'm sure there are a lot of posters who'd agree you are one cool azz mofo! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OP- as much as its a lovely idea - your nose has turned brown. ;)
 

Mike32ct

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djjizzyjeff said:
It might be a good thing to post not just private reps but have a thread a week etc. dedicated to ONE current posting So Suave member.

I'd like to start off by nominating Mike32ct for the first choice in a possible history of new and or existing users who really make SS worthwhile.

Wow. Thank you. :D

From your posting history you seem like a really cool dude, give great advice and need to realize you would make a damn good catch for ANY chick who's worth it. No matter what you may believe a few dopey broads might think.

There are no dopey broads in the northeast. They are the BEST quality women in the world. Ask them, and they'll tell you :crackup:

All kidding aside, I really appreciate this.


Mike I sincerely wish you the best in life dude. And I'm sure there are a lot of posters who'd agree you are one cool azz mofo! :up:
Thanks again man. I'm flattered :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Danger said:
Hey you two, stop lip-locking. This is fight club dammit.
You arent supposed to talk about it!

FIRST AND SECOND RULES derp derp derp!!
 

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Mike32 hasn't killed himself yet. Which is keeping him in the running to get laid eventually.
 

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Espi said:
C'mon...nobody likes to focus on positive shiat. The news makes news because it's usually BAD news...or the THREAT of bad news.

When I logon here I prefer CONFLICT and DRAMA and thinking that I can help curtail DISASTERS.

I like Mike32ct, but goddam guys no need to go around flattering each other like this. That's what the freaking REP is for.

Kinda makes me cringe.

ESPI is getting emotional and showing his feelings.

Time to +1 rep him!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This type of thread might be useful if the OP addresses specific ideas, stories, or analysis that the "honoree" has brought to the table in recent posts.

Rather than just giving him a public handjob in vague terms. Ya know?
 

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Zarky said:
This type of thread might be useful if the OP addresses specific ideas, stories, or analysis that the "honoree" has brought to the table in recent posts.

Rather than just giving him a public handjob in vague terms. Ya know?

no need for insults
 

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I've been lurking this site for a long time, and I definitely agree that mike32ct posts some money.
 
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