TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
Ah back in the day when Names had no numbers in them.
I miss the ol brown board.
I miss the ol brown board.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sosuave origin!
- Thread starter Blue Phoenix
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And I, being an Internet kid, haven't found this site until October 2004. (I first accessed the internet in 1997).
Oh, regret, regret...
To think that I miss posters like Anti-Dump makes me think WTF I was doing surfing that sh*t!
What a waste...
Oh, regret, regret...
To think that I miss posters like Anti-Dump makes me think WTF I was doing surfing that sh*t!
What a waste...
prob being a little controversial here..Originally posted by djbr
And I, being an Internet kid, haven't found this site until October 2004. (I first accessed the internet in 1997).
Oh, regret, regret...
To think that I miss posters like Anti-Dump makes me think WTF I was doing surfing that sh*t!
What a waste...
but what i've found with internet communities is the "old days" were always so much better then the "now". in one community i was in from the start, i really couldn't see a whole lot of difference.
lets be serious here, people choose which threads to read, and when you choose to read the "my girlfriend sucked my uncles d*ck, should i break up with her?" type threads, your not going to learn anything..
of everyone who is talking about how great it was in the old days, where are you're tips, where are your field reports? as such senior members, why aren't you showing some leadership?
*on a side note, i personally need to do some field reports, but i'm almost always drunk when i sarge, and details are sketchy.. lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.