"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last week Friday an old wing of mine came into NYC, he was actually going to a Newbie Meetup for another site, which I actually didn't stay long for because I had a party to go too. But I must say I was impressed and for the first time ever really realized that there are more than 100 guys out and about...before I used to think I was one of the few actively going out because I'd never see people in the so called Pickup Battledome location.

Anyway the meetup was interesting, they ended up doing night game, which my wing told me was a great experience.

So, since I'm so skeptical about this site as there are only a few guys on this site who actually cold approach and many on here think cold approaching is impossible...

We might as well have a meetup...
- If your a KBJ, come along, you just might be motivated to start actually doing this
- If your a Newbie, you will have a nice experience
- If your good, you can give insight and motivation

Back when I first started I never planned on meeting anyone in this community, but after seeing how cool some of my wings are as a person, I started enjoying it and actually liked helpping guys out.

So if anyone wants to do this just drop a post as to the best times possible in the next week or two...My schedule is very tough and I'd prefer a weekend just so more people can come out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Next friday, possibly union square?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im supposed to b chillin wit noobpimp dis weekend or next to holla but if any of u others from nyc want to then pm me iight
 
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Snow Plowman said:
I forgot about this thread...anyone still down...for setting something up...
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I'm in as well. PM me if you're serious, as well as send a quick bio about yourself(age, the scene you're into, what types of places you like to hit up, etc. etc..not that it matters, I just wanna get a better idea of where you're coming from). Later.
 
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Yea im down fo dis weekend. Either friday or sat iight pm me or any1 else pm me
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How did this work out?

You guys still met up??
 
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Still interested?

Hey man im a newbie def intersted in doing this
 
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I really need to start doing this, im free sat nights and all day sunday
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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inner game meet in nyc

I have developed few things for inner game
we can meet coffee place and do this ,1 hour should be enough go out later if you feel like
pm me
 
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lets meet at 8 in union square this sat and have some night game ;)
i need some experience
whose definably gonna be there?
 
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