"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sosuave NYC Newbie Meetup

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Snow Plowman

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Last week Friday an old wing of mine came into NYC, he was actually going to a Newbie Meetup for another site, which I actually didn't stay long for because I had a party to go too. But I must say I was impressed and for the first time ever really realized that there are more than 100 guys out and about...before I used to think I was one of the few actively going out because I'd never see people in the so called Pickup Battledome location.

Anyway the meetup was interesting, they ended up doing night game, which my wing told me was a great experience.

So, since I'm so skeptical about this site as there are only a few guys on this site who actually cold approach and many on here think cold approaching is impossible...

We might as well have a meetup...
- If your a KBJ, come along, you just might be motivated to start actually doing this
- If your a Newbie, you will have a nice experience
- If your good, you can give insight and motivation

Back when I first started I never planned on meeting anyone in this community, but after seeing how cool some of my wings are as a person, I started enjoying it and actually liked helpping guys out.

So if anyone wants to do this just drop a post as to the best times possible in the next week or two...My schedule is very tough and I'd prefer a weekend just so more people can come out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Next friday, possibly union square?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im supposed to b chillin wit noobpimp dis weekend or next to holla but if any of u others from nyc want to then pm me iight
 
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Snow Plowman said:
I forgot about this thread...anyone still down...for setting something up...
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I'm in as well. PM me if you're serious, as well as send a quick bio about yourself(age, the scene you're into, what types of places you like to hit up, etc. etc..not that it matters, I just wanna get a better idea of where you're coming from). Later.
 
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Yea im down fo dis weekend. Either friday or sat iight pm me or any1 else pm me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How did this work out?

You guys still met up??
 
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Still interested?

Hey man im a newbie def intersted in doing this
 
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I really need to start doing this, im free sat nights and all day sunday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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inner game meet in nyc

I have developed few things for inner game
we can meet coffee place and do this ,1 hour should be enough go out later if you feel like
pm me
 
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lets meet at 8 in union square this sat and have some night game ;)
i need some experience
whose definably gonna be there?
 
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