DeusDonNYC
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Looking for wings in NYC as well. Live in the Financial District. I'm a little older but looking to get back in the game. Send me a pm!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DeusDonNYC said:Looks like you got a stalker here Plastic.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey did these guys really go at it ?Young Anikan said:Junkyard and YoungSir4Sho ya know nas one that battle lolz.That **** was funny at duane read.That night was cool,And them L.A. broads was iight too.
lol no they were arguing over who won a hiphop battlebroken dreams said:Hey did these guys really go at it ?
were they really fighting over a chick ?
next time film it and post it here.
I will bring the boxing gloves for them to really put the balls on the line and step up.
LMAO
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yea man,she was cute,I just might do that. What the Hell everyone doing tonight???Junkyard said:lol no they were arguing over who won a hiphop battle
but young anikan u should hit up that chick from duane reade again :yes:
I went there on friday, the cover that night was $30 and $40 after midnight. The thing is they have alot of well known DJ's spinning there, mainly house/trance/techno music so thats probly why its so expensive. Also, it dont close until 6 am. Alot of people were probly rolling, one dude even asked me if i had pills lol. I had fun tho!guywhoneedshelp said:I have a question about Pacha. Someone in this thread recommended it. I called them last night and they said it was $50 to get in and going up each hour. Maybe it was that expensive because it was Halloween...but is this place really that good? And always that expensive?
I went to Webster Hall about 3 weeks ago for the first time...my buddy has ranted and raved about the women being hot in this place...well ya know what? It sucked balls. Most of the women weren't hot(very surprising considering this place is huge, with 3 floors and about 5 rooms). Big waste of 30 bucks and a big waste of my time. That'll be the last time I go to Webster Hall. The only good thing I'll say about the place was the music, as I am a fan of Trance/Techno/House..although I'm only a fan of it when the lyrics aren't cheesy where you have some b*tch whining about a guy, or some guy AFCly whining about a chick.Junkyard said:I went there on friday, the cover that night was $30 and $40 after midnight. The thing is they have alot of well known DJ's spinning there, mainly house/trance/techno music so thats probly why its so expensive. Also, it dont close until 6 am. Alot of people were probly rolling, one dude even asked me if i had pills lol. I had fun tho!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL WUT.:crackup:alphamailman said:I was pulling mad russian b!tches out of Brighton Beach! I took one home and she had a PEN!S, I fresh whooped his a$$ on the SPOT... GOD DAMN.
Maybe i didnt miss out, I tried going there a few weeks ago but too much drama at the door. Im pretty much done with megaclubs anyway, im gonna stick with the smaller venues with no cover/door dramaedger said:I went to Webster Hall about 3 weeks ago for the first time...my buddy has ranted and raved about the women being hot in this place...well ya know what? It sucked balls. Most of the women weren't hot(very surprising considering this place is huge, with 3 floors and about 5 rooms). Big waste of 30 bucks and a big waste of my time. That'll be the last time I go to Webster Hall. The only good thing I'll say about the place was the music, as I am a fan of Trance/Techno/House..although I'm only a fan of it when the lyrics aren't cheesy where you have some b*tch whining about a guy, or some guy AFCly whining about a chick.
What's up:Junkyard said:Maybe i didnt miss out, I tried going there a few weeks ago but too much drama at the door. Im pretty much done with megaclubs anyway, im gonna stick with the smaller venues with no cover/door drama![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.