DeusDonNYC
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Looking for wings in NYC as well. Live in the Financial District. I'm a little older but looking to get back in the game. Send me a pm!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DeusDonNYC said:Looks like you got a stalker here Plastic.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey did these guys really go at it ?Young Anikan said:Junkyard and YoungSir4Sho ya know nas one that battle lolz.That **** was funny at duane read.That night was cool,And them L.A. broads was iight too.
lol no they were arguing over who won a hiphop battlebroken dreams said:Hey did these guys really go at it ?
were they really fighting over a chick ?
next time film it and post it here.
I will bring the boxing gloves for them to really put the balls on the line and step up.
LMAO
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea man,she was cute,I just might do that. What the Hell everyone doing tonight???Junkyard said:lol no they were arguing over who won a hiphop battle
but young anikan u should hit up that chick from duane reade again :yes:
I went there on friday, the cover that night was $30 and $40 after midnight. The thing is they have alot of well known DJ's spinning there, mainly house/trance/techno music so thats probly why its so expensive. Also, it dont close until 6 am. Alot of people were probly rolling, one dude even asked me if i had pills lol. I had fun tho!guywhoneedshelp said:I have a question about Pacha. Someone in this thread recommended it. I called them last night and they said it was $50 to get in and going up each hour. Maybe it was that expensive because it was Halloween...but is this place really that good? And always that expensive?
I went to Webster Hall about 3 weeks ago for the first time...my buddy has ranted and raved about the women being hot in this place...well ya know what? It sucked balls. Most of the women weren't hot(very surprising considering this place is huge, with 3 floors and about 5 rooms). Big waste of 30 bucks and a big waste of my time. That'll be the last time I go to Webster Hall. The only good thing I'll say about the place was the music, as I am a fan of Trance/Techno/House..although I'm only a fan of it when the lyrics aren't cheesy where you have some b*tch whining about a guy, or some guy AFCly whining about a chick.Junkyard said:I went there on friday, the cover that night was $30 and $40 after midnight. The thing is they have alot of well known DJ's spinning there, mainly house/trance/techno music so thats probly why its so expensive. Also, it dont close until 6 am. Alot of people were probly rolling, one dude even asked me if i had pills lol. I had fun tho!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LOL WUT.:crackup:alphamailman said:I was pulling mad russian b!tches out of Brighton Beach! I took one home and she had a PEN!S, I fresh whooped his a$$ on the SPOT... GOD DAMN.
Maybe i didnt miss out, I tried going there a few weeks ago but too much drama at the door. Im pretty much done with megaclubs anyway, im gonna stick with the smaller venues with no cover/door dramaedger said:I went to Webster Hall about 3 weeks ago for the first time...my buddy has ranted and raved about the women being hot in this place...well ya know what? It sucked balls. Most of the women weren't hot(very surprising considering this place is huge, with 3 floors and about 5 rooms). Big waste of 30 bucks and a big waste of my time. That'll be the last time I go to Webster Hall. The only good thing I'll say about the place was the music, as I am a fan of Trance/Techno/House..although I'm only a fan of it when the lyrics aren't cheesy where you have some b*tch whining about a guy, or some guy AFCly whining about a chick.
What's up:Junkyard said:Maybe i didnt miss out, I tried going there a few weeks ago but too much drama at the door. Im pretty much done with megaclubs anyway, im gonna stick with the smaller venues with no cover/door drama![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.