"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sosuave NYC Crew Thread

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Snow Plowman

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Where are the NYC dudes...I've seen many community guys in NYC so there has to be some sosuave guys in NYC...

I've made some cool friends from other parts of the community who I regularly hangout with now...but I've never met up with ONE sosuave guy...and always been curious as to how they are as a person...

I just went through an intense 3 days in night venues...I'm underage so night time is always fun and uncommon for me. But despite all the schoolwork I have I'm willing to meetup with some guys on here...

Usually I like hanging out with 2-3 guys unless all my good friend's are coming out to hang...but in this case I think the max I'll roll with is 6 since I'm more about seeing the person behind the names as opposed to there skills...(Although will surely be having fun meet new people)

This is the schedule for me...I only know of two good night venues that I can get in...I'm only 19
Friday - Daytime
Anywhere between 3-8pm...I can roll with 4-5 max at a time

Thursday - Daytime into Nighttime
I get out of school 6:30 so I can go out to union square...then from there I can get into a nice lounge, I can even get underage guys in...catch is I can only bring 1 or 2 dudes...

Optional Sunday - Daytime into Nighttime
I'm thinking of going out day and night on sunday's just cause...so this is a maybe...

I'll PM all the guys who have posted in other NYC forums...because I really don't check this area of the forums...But surely...

This Friday (Sept 5th) I can meet up with anyone if there down for it...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We're here. So far I myself have made 2 good friends on this site and we've went out sarging a couple of times. The only thing is because of my work schedule I can only do night game, except on the weekends. The other guys I hang out with are over 21 so they also do night game with me.

But we are all willing to hang and do some day game, maybe even some "walking around" night game. I have plans this weekend but maybe next weekend if you want to set something up, let me know.

By the way, what part of NY do you live in?
 
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I cant seem to change my user name. but then again

I see that it is "I" that will start to break some "goldiggers and dead enders " dreams here. LoL.

I remember a woman was trying to give me advice and telling me that "some women are confused and take time to go out w other peopl just to make sure you are the right man" or " its nothing serious " "she loves you but she just confused"

translation: She is ****ing some guy and you are s NICE you should play GOOD BOY so she can use you while she is being a SLUT with some other dude.


That is the origin of my name ....

I do want to have the right to pick out the ones I like and are excited to be in my life so.. I will BREAK "society norms of dating " by me taking control of my Life and reverse women trying to manipulate w courtship behavior and make it a reality and not a DREAM.

I know Im ****ing crazy but It works .... its like the jerk that they love but... its just being myself and not being incongruent or wussy about what I want and making no excuses for it.


So I think it is cool that you guys are trying to go out.

PLease consider that An Entourage of Guys tend to scare some girls cause that comes off and they will smell like there's some AGENDA.

Just my thoughts.


I tried doing this at first and it turned out pretty cool. there are some skill full and intelligent individuals here which are ahead of average Loser I see at a club or bar.

much props to the guys here trying to help out.


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BTW : My friend awaken does Daygame coaching for cheap and I owe him for my daygame skills. I recommend reading up and seeing how a pro does it.
you are interested feel free to email me. I 'll hook you up w real daygame in NYC.

cheerios!
 
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hey im on the upper west side looking to go out and pick up some tail.

Who do you all sarge with? Who's cool?
 
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brothers.... I'm going out in NYC (Manhattan) with Rocky this Thiurs and Friday. Anybody who'd like to join us... pm me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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steviecruiser

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hey pms arent working for me....

who do u sarge with here, where do u meet up? im on the upper west side... i been to some good bars n stuff and should be good now that colleges are back
 
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We usually sarge around midtown or downtown. I live in Queens so I'm down to go anywhere in the city. Wouldn't even mind trying some uptown spots
 
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we could definitely set something up then. how many people come out? i prefer the bar scene as ive had a lot of success.
 
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I usually go out with just one other guy, but I wouldn't mind more than that. Doesn't matter to me. I just want to increase my skill level. Send me a PM when you can and I'll give you my info.
 
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Good to hear. Snowman n any1 else. Me n Rocky from suave will b at union square in manhattan tom again at aroun 530pm. There's a lot of girls there from all aroun the country. We'll b there till bout 9pm den eitha leave or find aclub scene but most likely jus go home afterwards. So whoeva wants to join us lata on today pm me n let me know iight
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So far its, me,rocky,n brokendreams to b at union square lata on today. Who else?
 
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Yo, I can meetup with you guys in the city at night for some bar night sarging.
 
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Next week, i think a union square meet up is a must
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sup guys just moved to nyc so I dont have anyone to sarge with. It would be cool to meet up with some of you! Im down for union square as well :up:
 
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Snowman I texted u da otha day, n junkyard n da othas dis friday sounds good at union square. Pm me, n dragon,sandy,rocky,n snowman da ones who got my number text me bout friday Ya Dig
 
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SuavePlaya said:
Have any of you guys actually met up or what?
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yea thats what I want to know! I want to know who has met who and where the sarging went down etc.... Someone give us a few field reports!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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