"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sosuave New Year's Resolutions!

Flabbergasped?

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I think this will be a constructive topic. Hopefully, it'll be around long enough for me to bump it on Dec 31, 2007.

It can be anything, so long as it is related to DJing. Remember, this site is about self-improvement!

My resolution is to be at my best physically. I'm going to start working out hardcore and eating right, because the whole tall and skinny look isn't so awesome. Immediate goals include benching 1.5x my body weight (I bench about .7x my body weight, that means I'm gonna double the load), getting started on hardcore squats and deads, and screwing a chick that I'm carrying for 30 min (surely a test of endurance, lol).

A secondary resolution is to be a lot of involved. I honestly try too hard to pick up chicks, and I think it's because I don't really have much else to do. If I really get busy, not only do I get the countless benefits of that, but it helps keep me in order and definitely helps in DJing.

Post yours, and keep it positive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chemistry

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Chicks should never be a goal...

Set your goals elsewhere with things like career, friends and self-improvement and you will have more chicks than you could've dreamed of... if you've created a fulfilling life for yourself, then all the things people spend time studying on here are natural occurences...
 

Flabbergasped?

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Lol, read the thread.

DJ-related goals. My real goal is to have a 3.9 GPA, but my DJ goal is to get buff. The former far supersedes the latter
 
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