"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sosuave New Year's Resolutions!

Flabbergasped?

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I think this will be a constructive topic. Hopefully, it'll be around long enough for me to bump it on Dec 31, 2007.

It can be anything, so long as it is related to DJing. Remember, this site is about self-improvement!

My resolution is to be at my best physically. I'm going to start working out hardcore and eating right, because the whole tall and skinny look isn't so awesome. Immediate goals include benching 1.5x my body weight (I bench about .7x my body weight, that means I'm gonna double the load), getting started on hardcore squats and deads, and screwing a chick that I'm carrying for 30 min (surely a test of endurance, lol).

A secondary resolution is to be a lot of involved. I honestly try too hard to pick up chicks, and I think it's because I don't really have much else to do. If I really get busy, not only do I get the countless benefits of that, but it helps keep me in order and definitely helps in DJing.

Post yours, and keep it positive.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chemistry

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Chicks should never be a goal...

Set your goals elsewhere with things like career, friends and self-improvement and you will have more chicks than you could've dreamed of... if you've created a fulfilling life for yourself, then all the things people spend time studying on here are natural occurences...
 

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Lol, read the thread.

DJ-related goals. My real goal is to have a 3.9 GPA, but my DJ goal is to get buff. The former far supersedes the latter
 
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