"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SoSuave Myspace?

HandyAndy

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What do you all think of making SS a myspace? Kinowear has one and stuff, I think itd be pretty cool, if we can get like a couple hundred friends and actually turn it into something
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Me and my friends love this sh!t I started it...

when i was 16 I was really down because I heard the words "lets just be friends"

I typed those exact words into yahoo search and I found sosuave.com

since then i've been reading and never told anyone until this year the word "afc" slipped in a conversation. my friend started laughing and he was like "i know what an AFC is"

I realized I wasn't the only loser reading dating tips online and we had a good laugh about it. next thing I knew we were emailing articles to eachother every day and had all our friends reading stuff too, using terms like "afc" "pua" "hb" in daily conversations. kinda as a joke, but in serious context.
 

apusislaya

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I think our society needs it. It would be a good idea to start a myspace. Though, you see, dudes won't be adding you, unless it's a chick profile with a picture of a girl, lol.
 

theunflushables

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I agree, don't do it. People need to find this when they need it the most. I think that almost all of us found SS because we were looking to change ourselves and become MEN. If SS was to join MySpace we would just see an influx of BOYS who joined because they know someone who joined. They wouldn't be here to learn, they'd be here to have a metaphorical pissing contest as to "how many chicks they've nailed" or "how many numbers they've got".

If you want to teach the DJ lifestyle, do so through example in your everyday life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pathgen

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First off i think it should remain private. However, if it was gonna happen i would rather it was on facebook or something better than myspace AND it would also have to be by invite from the site. Meaning one person would have all the inviting priveleges (if possible), and others would have to post a thread here or PM that person to get in. So no random peices of **** can corrupt it.

Btw im not into myspace or facebook so i dont know their limitations

Update: or don't do it lol
 

Triple T

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The right people for this site, will find it.

Its like a little underground dating advice site only known to a select few.
We're under the radar, which is good...I don't like all those other HUGE dating forums that are just a bunch of BS and lose focus.

Sosuave is where its at.
 

HandyAndy

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Triple T said:
The right people will find this site.

Its like a little underground dating advice site only known to few.
We're under the radar, which is good...I don't like all those other HUGE dating forums that are just a bunch of BS and lose focus.

Sosuave is where its at.

Yeah man I agree.

Have you ever been to the bodybuilding.com forums? Its obviously not a seduction forum but damn, you post a thread and get 20 replies in like 30 seconds.

Then the next day your thread gets lost 8 pages back lol :p
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah if there's ever gonna be a myspace for sosuave, it should be private open only to those that are members of the forum. myspace has added a new feature where you can leave a note when you add a friend and all those that want to add sosuave to their buddy list would need to leave their username they use here. Didn't someone say that it should be a new rule that people must have a picture of themselves when they post? Well, this would be a more acceptable idea. I'm rather open to it.
 

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I think I found this website in January-Feb of 04, looking for pick up lines to use on the beach. Yes, pick up lines :eek:

This site is pretty good as it stands, and anything that would make it worse than our regular flamers and know-it-alls is an excess of .... wait a minute, I would like to see more PUA's on here. Fek it. I'm sure they'd love the publicity here.

Actually... maybe if more guys became DJ's then women will descend from their feminist pedestals, begin to recognize MEN again, and not turn crazy after getting a train from their local frat.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daygameguy

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no need for it. People who need it will find it.
 

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I just searched "sosuave.com" on facebook, and there is a group called "Don Juans Unite." It only has 6 members, and no recent activity...well, 7 members now. haha
 

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Sweseduction - Sveriges Don Juans
For the hell of it i checked facebook too and found this group "Sweseduction - Sveriges Don Juans"

Lol its sosuave in sweden i guess. They Have links to this site and the bible, but the stuff in the group is all swiss. BTW they have 112 members
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OTB

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somebody said:
i think this forum is better than mystery method forums
Can anyone else attest to this?

Which other posters on here have been on both forums?


And No, I'm not asking the guy I just quoted since he got banned for some strange reason...... :eek:
 

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Don't do it! This is our hidden gem! Last thing we need is girls knowing our secrets and douchey guys learning them as well. This is a bad idea
 
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