"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys.. sosuave at it's whole, at you and at me, and every moderator in here.

You know what I have realized?

99% in here are AFC. 99% in here give advice while themselves not being don juan.

You want prove?

You read threads from 2002-ish from pook and the like. What do we have now? We have sht.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do we have now? We have sht
What you have lately is :

1. The Rational Male being regurgitated is if it were gospel

2. AMS advice being regurgitated as if it were gospel.

I was going to respond to somebody today who clearly regurgitated a (stupid) line from the rational male.......going to respond "and how did you arrive at that conclusion?" but what's the point.
 

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99 percent of men are AFCs, you think 2002 was any different?
 

FuzzX

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Pook wasn't right about everything dude. Bet the dude is either married or dead.
 

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Being on the forum is voluntary. I don't get why people who don't like what's here, still stay here?! If you want to raise the quality, then post good quality? I can't say I have seen anything noteworthy from you...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's better now, tbh.
The 'glory days' you are referring too was basically the mysterymethod days where all the PUA forums were full of dreamers trying to convince themselves that they could force attraction in any girl they wanted using negs or nlp or some other nonsense and it was just a cringe-fest

The community has largely moved on to something more resembling real life in regards to what game actually is (including it's obvious limitations. e.g it's not blackmagic lol) .

Some existing game forums completely discount 'game', and there's still a few forums ran by people trying to peddle their coaching and stuff who of course try to stick to the marketing from the old days, but this forum tends to have the correct balance from what i've seen
 

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I once went to a lair where I saw a guru named 'Kermit' about 16 or 17 years ago who was pushing 300lbs tell me that I couldn't let a girl 'do my dishes' because that wasn't alpha. Dude was wearing a girdle he was so big. I later saw him on a local television station.

0:15 to 0:34 :rofl: :lol: :rofl:

 

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Guys.. @SoSuave.com at sosuave at it's whole, at you and at me, and every moderator in here.

You know what I have realized?

99% in here are AFC. 99% in here give advice while themselves not being don juan.

You want prove?

You read threads from 2002-ish from pook and the like. What do we have now? We have sht.
What you probably dont realise is that there is a difference between theory and reality. Some people are very good at articulating the theory of game, while in real life they lack the bottle to deliver tangible field results. Im not saying Pook was just a theorist because I don't know him, but just remember to always pick valuable nuggets from what people post and apply them to your real-life game. Some of the wisdom will work for you, some of it wont.

If you come to the forum expecting something novel and mind-blowing all the time, you will be disappointed. At the end of the day everything that needs to be said about the dating game has been said many times over here in the past 20 years. The basic subject matter is static and never changes:
how to meet women and maximise your enjoyment while minimising heartache and pain. Thats all there is to it.

If you are a veteran of the forum, just come here to recharge your batteries and stay abreast of the changes happening in the dating landscape, while sharing your experience and wisdom with the young greenhorns joining daily.
 

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Well we can all be like BJ and only complain about the most informative forum and knowledge base of it’s kind, Or we can each individually contribute and add to its valuable content…
 
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