"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sosuave for women?
- Thread starter Miss
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
the answer has always been no.
The closest equivalent are quiz sites.
There are a few sites, but they are moderated by a single feminazi who controls all thoughts on the board to the point where only her opinion is heard.
Alternatively, there are boyfriend stealer sites and so on...
What is it you are looking for specifically?
How could there be a site like this for women?
Seriously, a lot of women may suffer from a lack of self-confidence, but that doesn't stop them from being able to date, and it doesn't make you a complete failure at life to be shy as a women (generally).
It doesn't for a guy either but... it really kills every ounce of passion to not even be able to look at a girl...
(I'm looking at the past, I seem to be over that now ^_^)
Something like this for women.
How could there be a site like this for women?
There can be a site like this for women easily, women telling women how to deal with the opposite sex. Why is that impossible?
This might be a shallow question, but do women seriously have anywhere NEAR as much trouble these things as guys do?
Women have just as much trouble with men as you have with them. Are you kidding, lol. Have you ever overheard two women have any conversation?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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brucevangeorge
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Pardon me for being sexist, but you women in general do not have the same comraudery that we men have. Maybe you are different since you are looking for what we are, but in general... don't be expecting to find the female version of sosuave.Miss said:
Your next best bet would be a gay male site.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Then there's this forum: http://www.newomen.com/phpBB_14.html
Hope any of them are of interest! It is hard to find for women. And for men; this site is the best, so imagine if the owner hadn't made it: there's be no good dating forum for men either.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
That is the quiz site I mentioned.Bible_Belt said:
Ther are a few bad girl forums... but they are simple... fashion and home decor
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
Docs
Banned
No, society invented seduction. The only thing we had before society was pure mating, and the girl only went for the best.
That, or she was so damn horny that you got lucky.
No seduction involved.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
*knock knock knock*Docs said:
Hey doc!
You losin your mind or something?
Your not speaking right... snap out of it man...
You know nobody's going to respect your game if you keep talking like that.
Docs
Banned
I'm a Ogre! Rawww!:rockon:flippinfreak said:
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol, docs, what ARE you smoking today?Docs said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Docs
Banned
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i care to disagree. ancient civilizations that repressed women where they did not have any power to compete with the brute strenght of men had to rely on something else. Women figuered out that men had an insatiable appetite for sex, and from that concept they figuered out many of the same techniques we use on women today to seduce them. seduction wasnt just to get a man into bed but to gain power. Think of cleopatra.........Docs said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Yea, and what if there was? you're gonna follow the 3 second rule, approach a guy and go sarging w/ your girlfriends? ****y and funny a guy? Women don't approach ANYWHERE in nature, you have it easy, why not just sit back and relax?Miss said:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
DJ_in_making said:
Exactly. All a woman needs to do is walk into a bar and yell out: "Who wants to get laid tonight?"
Done.
Basically, all women need to do is spread their legs and scream, "come and get it." For fun, maybe they can ring the "dinner triangle" too.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.