"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sosuave for women?
- Thread starter Miss
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Docs
Banned
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
the answer has always been no.
The closest equivalent are quiz sites.
There are a few sites, but they are moderated by a single feminazi who controls all thoughts on the board to the point where only her opinion is heard.
Alternatively, there are boyfriend stealer sites and so on...
What is it you are looking for specifically?
How could there be a site like this for women?
Seriously, a lot of women may suffer from a lack of self-confidence, but that doesn't stop them from being able to date, and it doesn't make you a complete failure at life to be shy as a women (generally).
It doesn't for a guy either but... it really kills every ounce of passion to not even be able to look at a girl...
(I'm looking at the past, I seem to be over that now ^_^)
Something like this for women.
How could there be a site like this for women?
There can be a site like this for women easily, women telling women how to deal with the opposite sex. Why is that impossible?
This might be a shallow question, but do women seriously have anywhere NEAR as much trouble these things as guys do?
Women have just as much trouble with men as you have with them. Are you kidding, lol. Have you ever overheard two women have any conversation?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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brucevangeorge
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Pardon me for being sexist, but you women in general do not have the same comraudery that we men have. Maybe you are different since you are looking for what we are, but in general... don't be expecting to find the female version of sosuave.Miss said:
Your next best bet would be a gay male site.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Then there's this forum: http://www.newomen.com/phpBB_14.html
Hope any of them are of interest! It is hard to find for women. And for men; this site is the best, so imagine if the owner hadn't made it: there's be no good dating forum for men either.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
That is the quiz site I mentioned.Bible_Belt said:
Ther are a few bad girl forums... but they are simple... fashion and home decor
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
Docs
Banned
No, society invented seduction. The only thing we had before society was pure mating, and the girl only went for the best.
That, or she was so damn horny that you got lucky.
No seduction involved.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
*knock knock knock*Docs said:
Hey doc!
You losin your mind or something?
Your not speaking right... snap out of it man...
You know nobody's going to respect your game if you keep talking like that.
Docs
Banned
I'm a Ogre! Rawww!:rockon:flippinfreak said:
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol, docs, what ARE you smoking today?Docs said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Docs
Banned
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i care to disagree. ancient civilizations that repressed women where they did not have any power to compete with the brute strenght of men had to rely on something else. Women figuered out that men had an insatiable appetite for sex, and from that concept they figuered out many of the same techniques we use on women today to seduce them. seduction wasnt just to get a man into bed but to gain power. Think of cleopatra.........Docs said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Yea, and what if there was? you're gonna follow the 3 second rule, approach a guy and go sarging w/ your girlfriends? ****y and funny a guy? Women don't approach ANYWHERE in nature, you have it easy, why not just sit back and relax?Miss said:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
DJ_in_making said:
Exactly. All a woman needs to do is walk into a bar and yell out: "Who wants to get laid tonight?"
Done.
Basically, all women need to do is spread their legs and scream, "come and get it." For fun, maybe they can ring the "dinner triangle" too.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.