"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blackhatter

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Why hasn't it been done? I think it's about time we start seeing some faces in the community (I'd like to see some of the more so called 'experienced' DJs on here in real life).

I think whoever sets it up should set it as a secret group.. i wouldn't want women knowing I go online for dating advice!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blacked out?

By making a group secret all it does is not allow others who aren't in the group to see that you're a member.

Who said anything about blacking out faces?
 

PokerStar

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im not feeling the facebook group either. thats why we have sosuave.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wait, so my friends can't see the group but the group can see my friend list?

No way.
 

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Asteconn said:
I support the idea - it'd be VERY useful in finding DJs near each other :up:
why dont we just start up a poll or have a specialy designed thread where posters can rep their own cities and country.

if a poster would like to meet a fellow sosuave member they can pm them or post within the specific thread.

that way we can still remain anonymous.
 

I'm in the Mood

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I think that might further ruin the mysteriousness of our "art."

I'm actually worried about this stuff, because if the seduction community gets too publicized, it will be more common knowledge around women and they may become more critical of men in the end.

Even for guys who don't come here, if a woman knew about this stuff and a guy who didn't used something from here by chance, what would happen?
I doubt this will happen but I've heard some guys tell me "that pickup artist stuff is something that people shouldn't be doing."
 

Five To One

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Im interested in a facebook group but also too concerned about keeping this a secret. I can only imagine the damage it would do to my life.

My friends laughed their a$$es off after stumbling upon "the pickup artist" tv show. At random times they would shout out pua lingo in public and crack up. Thats when I realized I was living a double life. It needs to stay a double life, atleast for now.
 

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dont be dumb...this type of site isnt something to talk about with women around and getting other guys to know just makes more competition....leave it as it is
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alle_Gory said:
Wait, so my friends can't see the group but the group can see my friend list?

No way.
Thats the other problem...
anyone with a grudge against someone else can add one of their friends and almost instantly wreck their life. "hey look what your friend likes to learn about---with a link to sosuave."
 

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Im not a fan of this idea, I like the secrecy behind sosuave.com. Plus I like to think we have an advantage coming here, I know for a fact this site has improved my own game 100%
 

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Bad Idea. Sosuave is not a social forum where people come to socialize. It is a place for self-improvement on yourself. If you want find someone in your neighborhood to socialize with, use facebook or myspace.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pLaYtHiNg

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blackhatter said:
I think whoever sets it up should set it as a secret group.. i wouldn't want women knowing I go online for dating advice!
Oops. :whistle: I think a lot of women would find it endearing. :) Besides, who cares what they think??
 

penkitten

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fellas... use the search button
there has been an ongoing thread for years, that contains the whereabouts of all members in case you wanna meet up and wing together.
i believe eternal wrote it.
 

Mr CIDH

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I've told a few ppl doesnt seems to make much difference.
Most guys I told are very AFC friends and dont wanna read.. only dude I know who was interested already was good. The few women I told about it found it very interesting. But yah aint want my identity up either.. ppl who dont know you might get the wrong idea..
 

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Making a facebook group with regards to this is totally redundant! Girls would be able to access our minds and the next thing you know it's even harder to get a girl!

That's why Sosuave even f**kin' exists! Everything you pretty much need to know or ask about can be done here!

Case closed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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