"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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comic_relief

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Hello All,

I would like to interest everyone in sharing their favorite cooking recipes that taste wonderful and can be made within the space of half hour or less.

I have just started to cook a majority of my meals since I am living on my own now. I am wondering if anybody has some very delicious ideas.

I will try most of them if they are given (as long as they are within my budget AND in good taste).

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I like this idea. I need some new recipes.

I'll try and find my stir fry recipe. Easy, tasty AND good for you!
 

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there are some good threads around here already on this subject, perhaps they are still around & can be gathered here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Real simple but tasty pasta and meat sauce, good college meal:

Based on a simple bolognese sauce. Now this really should be a no-brainer, but my roommate would always somehow find a way to butcher this

Get this:
1/3 pounds of lean (93% lean, or 96% when on sale) ground beef, basically a third of the packages that I get
Some chopped onions
A can of marinara sauce, Prego is usually what I use...yes, you will get better flavor and probably less sodium if you make your own marinara sauce, but this is for simplicity
Black pepper (I like coarse ground), garlic powder, basil
Extra virgin olive oil
Whatever pasta you prefer. Spaghetti, penne, ect.

Do this:
1. Let the ground beef defrost and thaw overnight first; not absolutely necessary, but I think the flavors all come together better if you do
2. In a pan, pour olive oil on the ground beef, season with a little black pepper and garlic powder (just a little now), and cook at a medium-high temperature. Don't burn it!
3. Once the meat has been browned and there is no more pink, pour some marinara sauce on, and add some more seasoning, including the basil
4. Put the lid on and let it simmer at a low temperature for about 15 minutes. This would be a good time to start boiling water for the pasta.

Yes, there are better ways to make a bolognese sauce, and you can get creative with this. A little wine can add some good flavor. Sometimes I'll throw in chopped up jalapenos...definitely not a traditional bolognese sauce, but I love spicy foods. Add some grated or shredded cheese if you like.
 

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Real simple spicy chili

In a small pot, put in a handful of black beans. Add another handful of pinto beans.
Pour in half of a small can of diced tomatoes.
Toss in a small handful of chopped onions
Toss in a chopped jalapeno
Add chili powder, paprika, garlic powder, and black pepper
Add a tiny bit of olive oil. You only need a bit, like a spoonful, but I find that it helps to keep the beans from getting weird and clumping together
Add some water

Let it simmer for about 3 hours on low heat and serve with rice. Very high in protein, and basically no fat whatsoever.
 
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