"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sosuave.com dictionary??

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Can someone take a little time and compile a dictionary that explains the definition of all the acronyms and the terms that are used here. There are a whole lot that I dont know since I'm a n00b. I saw the mini-acronym dictionary in the bootcamp, but there's still so much more.

For instance, I just learned recently what "challenge is", and I have no idea what "Ganji" is. heh. It wasn't too long ago that I learned "LJBF" as well.

Thanks to whoever does this.
I'd also like to thank Pook and Anti-Dump for starting me out on this journey, and helping to realize that I need to stop this nonsense and get off my ass.

Peace, guys.


EDIT: Here's a running list of acronyms and terms used in DJing for us n00bs.

First look here, it's got pretty much everything
http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

Other terms:

Ganji -
To "Ganji" someone means to completely avoid them. It is named after the fellow of that name who observed that avoiding a woman in whom you had formerly showed interest can often cause her interest in you to increase. "Ganji techniques" use absence to make the heart grow fonder. -bonhomme
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe a mod can make the acronym list sticky. But then again, having the link to the DJB on the front page doesn't seem to help worth a sh*t ;)
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
Maybe a mod can make the acronym list sticky. But then again, having the link to the DJB on the front page doesn't seem to help worth a sh*t ;)
Yeah I agree with that. I had to have someone point me toward the bible to actually find it. One can go for months without having to post anything as long he's found the bible...

Hey cool! Thanks for the link.

BTW, shouldn't we change the post count titles a bit? DJ? hardly...;) I will get there though...
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
Maybe a mod can make the acronym list sticky.
Done.

Thread Stuck like chewed gum on the sidewalk.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Ganji" missing

Ganji was missing from the ASF glossary.

To "Ganji" someone means to completely avoid them. It is named after the fellow of that name who observed that avoiding a woman in whom you had formerly showed interest can often cause her interest in you to increase. "Ganji techniques" use absence to make the heart grow fonder.

Best with women who once had a high interest, but their interest waned due to an isolated instance or 2 of chump behavior that turned them off.

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And damned if I can find a glossary or the above link anywhere in the Bible, unless it has been recently added. Thanks for the sticky!
 

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Re: "Ganji" missing

Originally posted by Bonhomme
And damned if I can find a glossary or the above link anywhere in the Bible, unless it has been recently added. Thanks for the sticky!
It should be in there when the bible get's re-done.
 

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Tell ya what, until the dictionary for the bible's done, I'll keep a running list in my first post (plus the link)...
 

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Hahahaha, just had a quick flic through the link. So many damn abreviations! I cracked up at WARPIG though- damn that one is getting used!
 
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