Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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amoka

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We are all aware some members of sosuave got banned for reason unknown to common members such as myself. It is true that some posted controversial material but the same or similar material can be found here by other members yet are not banned. I suggest mods keep list of members that are banned and a reason they are banned and if possible, a reference to their behaviour. For example:
Name ..................................................Banned for................................Reference.
Skip: ............................Trying to seduce his mother. This is not what we teach.
LMS: ..........................Wh0re hater. Here, we like everybody.
Skip2my:................. Same as skip, no mult. names allowed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah, he called my fiancee a ***** one day.. lol. I mean.. I knew in general the point he was trying to make.. but I mean at some point a 45 year old man sh ould have some type of tactfulness.

But you could go a long way listening to his views on women. the man was no dummy.
 

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Whatever happened to Wyldfire? A female, but one of the best posters and best advice here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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amoka said:
We are all aware some members of sosuave got banned for reason unknown to common members such as myself. It is true that some posted controversial material but the same or similar material can be found here by other members yet are not banned. I suggest mods keep list of members that are banned and a reason they are banned and if possible, a reference to their behaviour. For example:
Name ..................................................Banned for................................Reference.
Skip: ............................Trying to seduce his mother. This is not what we teach.
LMS: ..........................Wh0re hater. Here, we like everybody.
Skip2my:................. Same as skip, no mult. names allowed.

I wanna read this funny mother-seducing crap, can you provide a link?? I need a good laugh!
 

Alle_Gory

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Gaucho said:
Whatever happened to Wyldfire? A female, but one of the best posters and best advice here.
She kept bringing up all that baby momma drama about her biker husband that comes in and out of prison.

She was just a regular chick. Sounds logical... on the surface. But deep down inside she was turned on by some dead beat.
 
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Rescue Mission said:
I wanna read this funny mother-seducing crap, can you provide a link?? I need a good laugh!
Im still waiting........or are you just a loser with so much free time on your hands that you make useless threads like this that are full of unexplained lies........what was your point in making this thread, it doesn't benefit anyone to see how ignorant and moronic you are.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
Im still waiting........or are you just a loser with so much free time on your hands that you make useless threads like this that are full of unexplained lies........what was your point in making this thread, it doesn't benefit anyone to see how ignorant and moronic you are.
Rofl, are you sure you are not just another b1tch with a sense of entitlement. "I DESERVE TO GET THIS INFORMATION JUST BECAUSE I DESERVE IT!"

Actually no, you don't deserve sh1t. Why should the OP dig out old threads for you? And god forbid him not being able to do it in your imposed timelimit of 12 hours. Who the fvck do you think you are?
 
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CaptainJ said:
Rofl, are you sure you are not just another b1tch with a sense of entitlement. "I DESERVE TO GET THIS INFORMATION JUST BECAUSE I DESERVE IT!"

Actually no, you don't deserve sh1t. Why should the OP dig out old threads for you? And god forbid him not being able to do it in your imposed timelimit of 12 hours. Who the fvck do you think you are?
I just wanted to know why its okay to throw shyt against the wall such as saying someone seduced their own mother, when such a thread or reference doesn't exist. I thought only BPD chicks make up lies to feel good about themselves....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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also this doesn't sound like a "sosuave banned list" thread (why would anyone make a thread like that anyway?), but it sounds like this Amoka guy is playa-hating on someone named Skip.......this whole thread is just pure crap.
 

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Anyone remember that nutcase Luke Skywalker? Either he was completely insane, or he was the greatest troll of all time.
 

Alle_Gory

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Evzone said:
Anyone remember that nutcase Luke Skywalker? Either he was completely insane, or he was the greatest troll of all time.
Yea. He's crazy. No troll can be that congruent. His posts never deviated from his insane religious beliefs, and his repressed sexual obsessions... especially about his mother. :nervous:
 
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looking at various threads over the last few years, I have noticed that alot of the guys who had sex with lots of women and then came up here to dish out their advice, have ended up being banned..........not for being a "troll", but what looks like for just breaking forum rules about insulting other members. I can't blame them though, because when a chump does not want to learn from someone who has experience and is trying to help, that chump deserves some really tough love to try to get the point across.

Player Supreme being banned is a really good example of what I'm talking about.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
looking at various threads over the last few years, I have noticed that alot of the guys who had sex with lots of women and then came up here to dish out their advice, have ended up being banned..........not for being a "troll", but what looks like for just breaking forum rules about insulting other members. I can't blame them though, because when a chump does not want to learn from someone who has experience and is trying to help, that chump deserves some really tough love to try to get the point across.

Player Supreme being banned is a really good example of what I'm talking about.
The rules are there for a reason.

You can't force people to learn and insulting them isn't suddenly going to make them understand.

"Tough love" only works in certain situations. Anonymously via forums is not one of those situations.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maxtro said:
"Tough love" only works in certain situations. Anonymously via forums is not one of those situations.
Yup. I came from the Player Supreme camp and while I agree most of the guys here could use a big smack upside the head....you can't really smack em over the internet..it just doesn't work. You have to teach by example, parable and consistency.
 

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Worst troll of all time (yet hasn't been banned yet?)

Don Juan Number One


He also seems to be the least funniest internet provocateurs ever... :yes:
 

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I can't wait till Alpha Romero gets put on that list. Talk about some one who needs a smack up side of the head!

Player Supreme was a very good influence & LMS ALWAYS made a fun read even if they both were a little "blunt" in their words. Sometimes you have to smack the horse to get the cart out of the mud.


Speaking of the rare female on the boards...what ever happened to Sexy Malibu????
 

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Rescue Mission said:
Player Supreme being banned is a really good example of what I'm talking about.
Player supreme kept making threads insulting people, making multiple accounts to talk to himself, and used this forum as a means of farming members for his pay-only forum he's still running.

If you want to talk to him then get on his website and start dishing out a monthly fee.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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