"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sosuave as a time sink

everywomanshero

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The Internet can be a giant time sink, this is a big pitfall.

There is a danger that one will start acting like a woman, coming online to talk about his "feelings" and how women & society "wronges" him, and use the Internet as a big supprot group.

Then one can start to associate with negative people because they confirm (through their hate of women) how women are evil and how bad they are.

Then one will spend hours and hours doing nothing productive but fixating on bad thoughts.

This is the great danger.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everywomanshero said:
...through their hate of women) how women are evil and how bad they are..
Hate hors not women!!!!!!
 
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