"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sosuave as a time sink

everywomanshero

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The Internet can be a giant time sink, this is a big pitfall.

There is a danger that one will start acting like a woman, coming online to talk about his "feelings" and how women & society "wronges" him, and use the Internet as a big supprot group.

Then one can start to associate with negative people because they confirm (through their hate of women) how women are evil and how bad they are.

Then one will spend hours and hours doing nothing productive but fixating on bad thoughts.

This is the great danger.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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everywomanshero said:
...through their hate of women) how women are evil and how bad they are..
Hate hors not women!!!!!!
 
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