The Bootcamp
To me one of the greatest posts is "Implementing Habits" by TD. This is the post that caused me to actually get off my feet and start approaching. But now that the year is finish and learning new things I want to start fresh again. I think this will help anyone who goes through this.
Realize that you will actually be going out and approaching women. If you aren't willing to talk to people then don't bother reading this post and don't read no farther. We will all be doing this PROACTIVELY.
Long term Goal
1. You will be doing this for the next three years.
2. Decide between going out 3-7 days per week.
3. Choose how many sets you will approach each night. (Recommend 10 sets for newbies, less for more experienced people and if your interaction with a set is pretty long. Also if your on a day2 then you don't have to approach no sets for that day)
4. FULLY ACCEPT and make a FIRM COMMITMENT that you will stick to this.
Don't go off of emotions. Even if your sick, or tired, just go out for a bit just to keep the habit going. After awhile it will be a routine going out. Just show up and push through it. It may feel directionless at first but just go through it and you will notice improvement after awhile. This is your new hobby. (Picking up girls) So lets get ready.
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It doesn't matter what method you use because in the end if you go out for a certain amount of time you will get an idea of whats working for you and not working for you. An you can always take ideas from other guys who are going through this bootcamp.
Primary Goals (You have completed your day if you do these)
1. Just show up (Go outside somewhere)
2. Just have fun and don't worry about the outcome
3. Approach some sets
Seconday Goalls (If you want to improve do this in each set)
1. Whatever your working on (Opening, Attractiing, vibing, etc)
2. Going for the #
3. Going for the Kiss
Tertiary Goals (Tweak and calibrate you're game)
1. Your sticking points
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I believe its best and easier if you work little by little so a little outline of what you can focus on each week is as follows... (You should also always be working on your inner game little by little. An also work on stuff like frames, bodylanguage, fashion, etc.)
1. Opening
2. Attracting/Hooking
3. Kino/Touching
4. Rapport/Vibing
5. Qualifying
6. Venue changing
7. Extracting/Laying/LMR/
Note - Certain methods have different things and may not have some of these but that is ok so longs your focusing on something. Also try not to read a whole bunch of material if you want its always good to read about a certain area of your game that you plan on working on for that week.
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Copy and paste this quote if you agree to go through this bootcamp and actually improve.
"I Fully accept this as a part of my life and Picking up girls is a hobby."
Be sure to post the following:
1. How many days per week you will go out? (bet. 3-7)
2. How many sets will you approaching?
After that future posts should be about but not limited too:
1. Weekly Report - A way to check and see who gave up and who is still up and running. Also to talk about your Sticking points and what you need to improve on.
2. Field Report - Anything fun happened, something unique, something you tested out, some advice you took that helpped you, etc. Post about it and tell us how it went
3. Questions - Anything your curious about, if you need an article to read about that may help you, etc.
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Try to keep this positive and try to help others who are apart of this. If your not going to offer any value then don't bother posting in this thread. Good luck and as of Jan 1st 2007 this bootcamp will kick off. I hope this encourages some people to get off there ass and stop acting like there good with women. This is your chance to improve together and actually make this a more positive and inspirational forums.