"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sorta party not sure how to act

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hey guys,

im going to a drinking party tommorow night,and im not sure how to act,because the only 2 people at this party im friends with are ******- she has been weird around me latley, and her best friend (my ex) - and she is currently pissed off at me and ignororing me for some mean things i said about her,and besides them 2 girls im not "friends" with anyone else there,and wont feel very welcomed lol,there will be a mix of girls and guys there,but how do i act? i dont wanna stand bymyself cause my girls that im friends with arent talking to me?

do i bite the bullett and say sorry to my ex again? for the sake of the night,or pretend as if i couldnt care less.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, fvck your ex. Get liquored up, and talk to new people. New Girls. Hot girls. Then girls you can get into bed. Then even more girls after that.

This is one time I recommend you think with your c0ck, not your brain. Kinda.
 

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i just talked to this chick on msn,and she has been really weird,lack of convo/general niceness and im expected to go to her party tommorow night at her sisters place and have fun? lol i see for myself 2 options...

1.dont go
2.get REALLY and i mean really drunk and turn up there

also,she said round 8ish,so what if i left it till late and see if she txted me or something? i just wont feel welcome going,and will feel like a **** standing around,i would try talk to new people,but it'll be weird my 2 friends there,they are being *****es and they are who i talk to lol
 

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This is good practice. Any opportunity where you are put out of your comfort zone can help mould you into a more confident person. You do not need those 2 girls to have a good night. Show up "late" (fashionably of course ;)), start drinking, and enjoy the moment. Meet new people, mainly of the female variety.

You gonna let a couple of punk chicks ruin a perfectly good night? Hell no.
 

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dude you really need to stop worrining about her oppinon of you... the only thing you can control is ur reality... **** getting drunk or waiting for her to text you.. wtf.. try this.. grab your balls be the man... go to this party, talk to lots of ppl,, take a buddie if you feel lonely and or wierd... (u shouldnt, if the only reason u feel is that your alone..) Just be the the man.. at the party and you will not only get noticed by ur ex,, but other chicks too.. im sure of this...

read jhon alexanders

Howtobecome an alpha male...

yea i konw there are alot of spelling errors.. so what.. deal with it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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