"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sorta party not sure how to act

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hey guys,

im going to a drinking party tommorow night,and im not sure how to act,because the only 2 people at this party im friends with are ******- she has been weird around me latley, and her best friend (my ex) - and she is currently pissed off at me and ignororing me for some mean things i said about her,and besides them 2 girls im not "friends" with anyone else there,and wont feel very welcomed lol,there will be a mix of girls and guys there,but how do i act? i dont wanna stand bymyself cause my girls that im friends with arent talking to me?

do i bite the bullett and say sorry to my ex again? for the sake of the night,or pretend as if i couldnt care less.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KillaCam

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Dude, fvck your ex. Get liquored up, and talk to new people. New Girls. Hot girls. Then girls you can get into bed. Then even more girls after that.

This is one time I recommend you think with your c0ck, not your brain. Kinda.
 

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i just talked to this chick on msn,and she has been really weird,lack of convo/general niceness and im expected to go to her party tommorow night at her sisters place and have fun? lol i see for myself 2 options...

1.dont go
2.get REALLY and i mean really drunk and turn up there

also,she said round 8ish,so what if i left it till late and see if she txted me or something? i just wont feel welcome going,and will feel like a **** standing around,i would try talk to new people,but it'll be weird my 2 friends there,they are being *****es and they are who i talk to lol
 

KillaCam

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This is good practice. Any opportunity where you are put out of your comfort zone can help mould you into a more confident person. You do not need those 2 girls to have a good night. Show up "late" (fashionably of course ;)), start drinking, and enjoy the moment. Meet new people, mainly of the female variety.

You gonna let a couple of punk chicks ruin a perfectly good night? Hell no.
 

cyp6

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dude you really need to stop worrining about her oppinon of you... the only thing you can control is ur reality... **** getting drunk or waiting for her to text you.. wtf.. try this.. grab your balls be the man... go to this party, talk to lots of ppl,, take a buddie if you feel lonely and or wierd... (u shouldnt, if the only reason u feel is that your alone..) Just be the the man.. at the party and you will not only get noticed by ur ex,, but other chicks too.. im sure of this...

read jhon alexanders

Howtobecome an alpha male...

yea i konw there are alot of spelling errors.. so what.. deal with it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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