"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sorta did an approch today

slitherjef

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Yeah, it was at work, some chick at the service desk when I went to cash my paycheck. Nothing special, I had no intent of doing anything anyway aside from being friendly and get a conversation going. Normaly not knowing the chick when I do this, I just go up and do what I need, say minimal stuff and leave. She was kind of cute, had some nice lips. So I go to her and hand her my check. While she is running it, I am standing there thinking to my self to talk to her) so I ask her if its been a busy day, at first she says, "huh?" So I repeat my question and she answers back that she was not sure, she just got there. So I give her an "oh, I see" She hands me my cash and I tell her thanks.

WOW, Im the f**kin man :rolleyes:

Well, got REAL far there but its another small step, I did not notice any of that fear, at least with this one, my stomach didnt sink or anything like that, but I did not intend to do anything but just be friendly. Its all good, however, she had a different color name badge on, she was under 18. I think she was 16 unless they ran out of the regular tags

I know hardly anyone at this store so I am just trying to play the get to know people card. This also gives me a chance to talk to new people
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ready123

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good job :)

that's how it works, baby steps
 

sav

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ur on the right track, keep it up... :)
 
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