"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorta did an approch today

slitherjef

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Yeah, it was at work, some chick at the service desk when I went to cash my paycheck. Nothing special, I had no intent of doing anything anyway aside from being friendly and get a conversation going. Normaly not knowing the chick when I do this, I just go up and do what I need, say minimal stuff and leave. She was kind of cute, had some nice lips. So I go to her and hand her my check. While she is running it, I am standing there thinking to my self to talk to her) so I ask her if its been a busy day, at first she says, "huh?" So I repeat my question and she answers back that she was not sure, she just got there. So I give her an "oh, I see" She hands me my cash and I tell her thanks.

WOW, Im the f**kin man :rolleyes:

Well, got REAL far there but its another small step, I did not notice any of that fear, at least with this one, my stomach didnt sink or anything like that, but I did not intend to do anything but just be friendly. Its all good, however, she had a different color name badge on, she was under 18. I think she was 16 unless they ran out of the regular tags

I know hardly anyone at this store so I am just trying to play the get to know people card. This also gives me a chance to talk to new people
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ready123

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good job :)

that's how it works, baby steps
 

sav

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ur on the right track, keep it up... :)
 
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