"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorta did an approch today

slitherjef

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Yeah, it was at work, some chick at the service desk when I went to cash my paycheck. Nothing special, I had no intent of doing anything anyway aside from being friendly and get a conversation going. Normaly not knowing the chick when I do this, I just go up and do what I need, say minimal stuff and leave. She was kind of cute, had some nice lips. So I go to her and hand her my check. While she is running it, I am standing there thinking to my self to talk to her) so I ask her if its been a busy day, at first she says, "huh?" So I repeat my question and she answers back that she was not sure, she just got there. So I give her an "oh, I see" She hands me my cash and I tell her thanks.

WOW, Im the f**kin man :rolleyes:

Well, got REAL far there but its another small step, I did not notice any of that fear, at least with this one, my stomach didnt sink or anything like that, but I did not intend to do anything but just be friendly. Its all good, however, she had a different color name badge on, she was under 18. I think she was 16 unless they ran out of the regular tags

I know hardly anyone at this store so I am just trying to play the get to know people card. This also gives me a chance to talk to new people
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ready123

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good job :)

that's how it works, baby steps
 

sav

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ur on the right track, keep it up... :)
 
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