"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry

jasonrivera

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What are some c&f ways you guys would respond when a girl you're dating says "sorry", like when she bumps into you and you drop something, or orders the wrong food if shes getting food for you, etc.

I'm not talking about when she cheats on you with your father and says sorry, or when she runs over your dog of 12 years. Just simple stuff.

Lets hear your best, guys! :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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quest

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"just don't do it again, b*thc."
the playfully give her a black eye.
 

jasonrivera

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Originally posted by quest
"just don't do it again, b*thc."
the playfully give her a black eye.

haha! good stuff. maybe, if shes cool enough, she'll even shoot back a c&f restraining order.
 
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Dirtheart

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Some you could try are:

"Strike one"
"I'm a forgiving person, but this time you really crossed the line"
"Don't think I'll forget it"
"Sorry isn't good enough"
"I expect you to make it up to me"

Or just sigh and shake your head.

Say it in a dry tone, but follow with a slight smile/smirk so she knows you're not serious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don_Marko

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Sorry doesn't cut it... actions speak louder than words. Then demonstrate with your closed fist going up and down to ur mouth while tounge presses side of ur face the action you expect her to take. (i.e. BJ motion)
 
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