"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jasonrivera

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What are some c&f ways you guys would respond when a girl you're dating says "sorry", like when she bumps into you and you drop something, or orders the wrong food if shes getting food for you, etc.

I'm not talking about when she cheats on you with your father and says sorry, or when she runs over your dog of 12 years. Just simple stuff.

Lets hear your best, guys! :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"just don't do it again, b*thc."
the playfully give her a black eye.
 

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Originally posted by quest
"just don't do it again, b*thc."
the playfully give her a black eye.

haha! good stuff. maybe, if shes cool enough, she'll even shoot back a c&f restraining order.
 
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Dirtheart

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Some you could try are:

"Strike one"
"I'm a forgiving person, but this time you really crossed the line"
"Don't think I'll forget it"
"Sorry isn't good enough"
"I expect you to make it up to me"

Or just sigh and shake your head.

Say it in a dry tone, but follow with a slight smile/smirk so she knows you're not serious.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don_Marko

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Sorry doesn't cut it... actions speak louder than words. Then demonstrate with your closed fist going up and down to ur mouth while tounge presses side of ur face the action you expect her to take. (i.e. BJ motion)
 
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