Sorry, I went on dnd - GF vanishes for the wknd?

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My gf texted me Saturday morning asking how I was.

I said good, what are your plans for tonight.

and she proceeded to vanish and only reapering Sunday morning saying sorry I went on dnd for yesterday.

nothing more. No further explanation.

right now I’m outta town. Land tomorrow

My question is

how to proceed?

I don’t need you to say what happened or any of that. My discussion is on how to proceed with this sh!t.
Tks
 

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My gf texted me Saturday morning asking how I was.

I said good, what are your plans for tonight.

and she proceeded to vanish and only reapering Sunday morning saying sorry I went on dnd for yesterday.

nothing more. No further explanation.

right now I’m outta town. Land tomorrow

My question is

how to proceed?

I don’t need you to say what happened or any of that. My discussion is on how to proceed with this sh!t.
Tks
Without further context or a more adequate picture of your guys' relationship, the only appropriate advice would be to have a conversation with her on why she felt the need to go DND for 24 hours.
 

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That's a red flag. Ask her about it casually, and judge for yourself how full of BS her response is or not.

"No problem. Everything alright?"
 

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Bad news...are we grown ups or what?

Your supposed gf couldn't tell you she's too tired? Or shoot you a message when she woke up?

One of the many ways a woman can hurt you when you want it more than she does.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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My gf texted me Saturday morning asking how I was.

I said good, what are your plans for tonight.

and she proceeded to vanish and only reapering Sunday morning saying sorry I went on dnd for yesterday.

nothing more. No further explanation.

right now I’m outta town. Land tomorrow

My question is

how to proceed?

I don’t need you to say what happened or any of that. My discussion is on how to proceed with this sh!t.
Tks
You reply back and ask her if everything is ok, whether there was some sort of emergency and proceed from there… if there is no emergency you ask her what the reason was for going on dnd and listen
 

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Update?

Or you just pretend like "nun happened"?
 

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need more context really how long have you been together ?

Big red flag anyway but I would be starting to withdraw quickly
 

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This isn’t normal behavior for a “girlfriend.” This is a woman who likely is getting ready to monkeybranch. Women who are into their men don’t go “DND” for 24 hour periods.

I would begin mentally preparing yourself for a breakup discussion in the near future.
 

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This isn’t normal behavior for a “girlfriend.” This is a woman who likely is getting ready to monkeybranch. Women who are into their men don’t go “DND” for 24 hour periods.

I would begin mentally preparing yourself for a breakup discussion in the near future.
She was playing "Dnd" as in "D!ck needed desperately"
 

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She went DND on Saturday night???

maybe it’s possibly excusable on certain days and circumstances but not that one. That sounds like she was partying really hard without inviting you or telling you a word about it.

what you should do is the exact same thing. Ghost her for 24 hours during prime time and bar crawl the whole time.
 
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