Sorry guys, im a bit confused and im sure other guys are too

[DJnoob]

I'm hearing/reading/feeling you can go on dates to see if you can have a relationship with a woman then **** her?

I'm hearing/reading/feeling you can go on a date and just **** her THEN have a relationship?

How does it go these days really in the US?

1. Fuak first, then date, then have relationship?
2. Date, then Fuak
3. Date, have relationship, then Fuak?
4. Just fuack (no dinner, no activities, just go bar and go somewhere to fuack), no relationship, still see each other just to fuack (not dating)?

 

[AlphaNate]

5. Understand you don't have to do any of these.

 

[dude99]

I'm hearing/reading/feeling you can go on dates to see if you can have a relationship with a woman then **** her?

I'm hearing/reading/feeling you can go on a date and just **** her THEN have a relationship?

How does it go these days really in the US?

1. Fuak first, then date, then have relationship?
2. Date, then Fuak
3. Date, have relationship, then Fuak?
4. Just fuack (no dinner, no activities, just go bar and go somewhere to fuack), no relationship, still see each other just to fuack (not dating)?

1. She follows your lead. She submits to your lead or next

 

[Reykhel]

It goes like this....."a women who gives up the sex too easily loses value in the eyes of others, likewise a man who gives away his commitment too easily loses value in the eyes of others"

Go with the flow, have fun......forget even thinking about a relationship.........even if you're desperate for one (for some reason) keep it to yourself, shut up talking about the future, let her try and nail you down.......if you do ever go down the relationship route.....it's always better and will always be stronger if it was her idea......

....she wants the fun of unravelling you, she wants the fun of chasing you and trying to be the one to cage you......why would you deny her this subtle dance that she so desperately craves......

 

[resilient]

...likewise a man who gives away his commitment too easily loses value in the eyes of others"

I think this is very telling. If a DJ reveals his commitment hand too early she'll be suspicious and wonder why behind the scenes or after the date is over and she has time to think... more importantly, he needs to seriously question himself wtf why!?

-Does he have a scarcity mindset?
-Is he not plate spinning enough to create an environment for abundance?
-Does he think he found a unicorn? (Hint: that answer is most likely a resounding no)
-Does he have low self-esteem?
-Does he have dread of abandonment?

The power dynamic shifts to the direction of her wind. She'll know it and jump start sh!t tests if she hasn't already and/or open her book for the monkey branch jumping business (most likely already starting hitting up her orbiters or in beginning stages). The o-so telling games of hot/cold, distancing, flaking behavior, missed call, or not returning texts. The guy can kiss self-respect good-bye.

On a lighter note of omission, I've field-tested this and would not recommend giving away commitment too fvcking early. Stay DJ-chase worthy my friends. Make the plate work and she can sweat the competition.

 

[Trump]

You sleep with her first then the relationship. She has to give in and then get the perks. If she gets the perks and then decides to give in when she wants to, you got no leverage in the relationship. And we all know how well men without leverage do.