"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sorry, gotta do this.

Die Hard

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First of all, I tried asking this question to SEVERAL moderators by PM. To my surprise, NONE of them gave me any response whatsoever, nothing, just silence... I don't know what's up with that :confused:, but I see no other option than to open a thread about it.

So here's my question: I wanna know if it's possible to find more than 500 posts from any particular member. When you go to someone's profile and click "find all posts by ...", it just finds his last 500 posts. But some members have near 5000 posts, so this practically means I can find only 10% of those posts?!

I'd love to read everything that was posted by pioneers like Anti-dump etc. Surely there must be a way to do this?


Thanks in advance!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Iracki

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Yea, you can use google.

Just type in site:sosuave.net "" and type whatever word or member you want to search. For example if you want to see Anti-dump's post you would type site:sosuave.net "anti-dump" and get http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&...=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=668845393480168f

You'll also get posts where Anti-dump was mentioned but you can get more results than the search feature on the forum will allow.
 

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Dear Die Hard,
I soo much enjoy your posts,but do you know old mate your Mail Bin is stuffed up with mail?won't accept more....could be part of the problem.
 

Die Hard

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Thanks for the tip, Iracki!

Scara, it's already a few months ago since I asked those mods...
Anyway, I take it you tried PM'ing me lately? When was that? I noticed my mailbox was full last week and immediately deleted some messages in it. But I deleted only messages from my outbox... It says I'm allowed a total of 75 messages combined (inbox + outbox). So I thought this means they share the storage space, like I can have 75 messages in my inbox as long as my outbox contains 0. Or am I wrong?

This might've been the problem, so I just deleted more messages from my inbox as well :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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