"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sorry, gotta do this.

Die Hard

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First of all, I tried asking this question to SEVERAL moderators by PM. To my surprise, NONE of them gave me any response whatsoever, nothing, just silence... I don't know what's up with that :confused:, but I see no other option than to open a thread about it.

So here's my question: I wanna know if it's possible to find more than 500 posts from any particular member. When you go to someone's profile and click "find all posts by ...", it just finds his last 500 posts. But some members have near 5000 posts, so this practically means I can find only 10% of those posts?!

I'd love to read everything that was posted by pioneers like Anti-dump etc. Surely there must be a way to do this?


Thanks in advance!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iracki

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Yea, you can use google.

Just type in site:sosuave.net "" and type whatever word or member you want to search. For example if you want to see Anti-dump's post you would type site:sosuave.net "anti-dump" and get http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&...=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=668845393480168f

You'll also get posts where Anti-dump was mentioned but you can get more results than the search feature on the forum will allow.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Die Hard,
I soo much enjoy your posts,but do you know old mate your Mail Bin is stuffed up with mail?won't accept more....could be part of the problem.
 

Die Hard

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Thanks for the tip, Iracki!

Scara, it's already a few months ago since I asked those mods...
Anyway, I take it you tried PM'ing me lately? When was that? I noticed my mailbox was full last week and immediately deleted some messages in it. But I deleted only messages from my outbox... It says I'm allowed a total of 75 messages combined (inbox + outbox). So I thought this means they share the storage space, like I can have 75 messages in my inbox as long as my outbox contains 0. Or am I wrong?

This might've been the problem, so I just deleted more messages from my inbox as well :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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