"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry, gotta do this.

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First of all, I tried asking this question to SEVERAL moderators by PM. To my surprise, NONE of them gave me any response whatsoever, nothing, just silence... I don't know what's up with that :confused:, but I see no other option than to open a thread about it.

So here's my question: I wanna know if it's possible to find more than 500 posts from any particular member. When you go to someone's profile and click "find all posts by ...", it just finds his last 500 posts. But some members have near 5000 posts, so this practically means I can find only 10% of those posts?!

I'd love to read everything that was posted by pioneers like Anti-dump etc. Surely there must be a way to do this?


Thanks in advance!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea, you can use google.

Just type in site:sosuave.net "" and type whatever word or member you want to search. For example if you want to see Anti-dump's post you would type site:sosuave.net "anti-dump" and get http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&...=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=668845393480168f

You'll also get posts where Anti-dump was mentioned but you can get more results than the search feature on the forum will allow.
 
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Dear Die Hard,
I soo much enjoy your posts,but do you know old mate your Mail Bin is stuffed up with mail?won't accept more....could be part of the problem.
 
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Thanks for the tip, Iracki!

Scara, it's already a few months ago since I asked those mods...
Anyway, I take it you tried PM'ing me lately? When was that? I noticed my mailbox was full last week and immediately deleted some messages in it. But I deleted only messages from my outbox... It says I'm allowed a total of 75 messages combined (inbox + outbox). So I thought this means they share the storage space, like I can have 75 messages in my inbox as long as my outbox contains 0. Or am I wrong?

This might've been the problem, so I just deleted more messages from my inbox as well :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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