"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sorry, another "Does she like me" thread

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MetsDude

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GettinMyMindRight said:
When will you see her next? Have her phone #?
Yeah I have her number. She asked that we exchange numbers a couple months ago (although she prefaced it by saying that it might be useful for work-related purposes). And yesterday was my last day, so no plans yet.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
How far is she from you?

It sounds like she is at least somewhat into you. Hard to tell in a work environment like that. Definitely recommend seeing her soon in a non-professional atmosphere.

Whatever you do, DO NOT call/text her often. No texts like "How was your day?" or anything like that.
So she lives ~20 minutes away from me, but I will be going back to school in a couple of weeks (school for me is an hour away from home). I come home during a lot of weekends, so I plan to see her then once we're both free. Any idea as to when would be a good time to hang out (given that I just left work)?
 
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