"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sorry, another "Does she like me" thread

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
When will you see her next? Have her phone #?
Yeah I have her number. She asked that we exchange numbers a couple months ago (although she prefaced it by saying that it might be useful for work-related purposes). And yesterday was my last day, so no plans yet.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
How far is she from you?

It sounds like she is at least somewhat into you. Hard to tell in a work environment like that. Definitely recommend seeing her soon in a non-professional atmosphere.

Whatever you do, DO NOT call/text her often. No texts like "How was your day?" or anything like that.
So she lives ~20 minutes away from me, but I will be going back to school in a couple of weeks (school for me is an hour away from home). I come home during a lot of weekends, so I plan to see her then once we're both free. Any idea as to when would be a good time to hang out (given that I just left work)?
 
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