"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sorry, another "Does she like me" thread
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah I have her number. She asked that we exchange numbers a couple months ago (although she prefaced it by saying that it might be useful for work-related purposes). And yesterday was my last day, so no plans yet.GettinMyMindRight said:
So she lives ~20 minutes away from me, but I will be going back to school in a couple of weeks (school for me is an hour away from home). I come home during a lot of weekends, so I plan to see her then once we're both free. Any idea as to when would be a good time to hang out (given that I just left work)?GettinMyMindRight said:
