MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sorority Sugar Daddy
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Metro3pilot
Senior Don Juan
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I don't understand it, are you for or against it ?
the student sounded jealous ...
this is extreme but look at the economics
Hooker $ 20 - $1000
Pros : variety, no games, no attachment, she works around your schedule
Cons : possible health implications
Dating : 3 dates x $ 100.00 = $ 300 for possible peck on cheek
Pros : you have an excuse for not chasing women
Cons : too many to mention
for the busy mature professional sugardaddy/hooker seems a better investment of time and money,
lets not kid ourselves either everyone knows the longer you're with a chick the higher the cost for the poon
1st month per unit cost for ***** approx $ 55.00
1 year per unit cost approx $ 212.00
by the time you divorce half of everything you own
that's my take
the student sounded jealous ...
this is extreme but look at the economics
Hooker $ 20 - $1000
Pros : variety, no games, no attachment, she works around your schedule
Cons : possible health implications
Dating : 3 dates x $ 100.00 = $ 300 for possible peck on cheek
Pros : you have an excuse for not chasing women
Cons : too many to mention
for the busy mature professional sugardaddy/hooker seems a better investment of time and money,
lets not kid ourselves either everyone knows the longer you're with a chick the higher the cost for the poon
1st month per unit cost for ***** approx $ 55.00
1 year per unit cost approx $ 212.00
by the time you divorce half of everything you own
that's my take
I wouldn 't call her a gold-digger. It's an arrangement of convenience, they both get something they want out of this, no one is fooling anyone. If she was leading the dude on by making him think he had a real chance with her and was milking his AFC ass, then I would call her a gold-digger.
Nothing secretive going on here (other than he's banging another woman who is not his wife). More power to both of them.
Nothing secretive going on here (other than he's banging another woman who is not his wife). More power to both of them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I'm getting my wife up on that site tonight.
What's the Link?
What's the Link?