MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sorority Sugar Daddy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Metro3pilot
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I don't understand it, are you for or against it ?
the student sounded jealous ...
this is extreme but look at the economics
Hooker $ 20 - $1000
Pros : variety, no games, no attachment, she works around your schedule
Cons : possible health implications
Dating : 3 dates x $ 100.00 = $ 300 for possible peck on cheek
Pros : you have an excuse for not chasing women
Cons : too many to mention
for the busy mature professional sugardaddy/hooker seems a better investment of time and money,
lets not kid ourselves either everyone knows the longer you're with a chick the higher the cost for the poon
1st month per unit cost for ***** approx $ 55.00
1 year per unit cost approx $ 212.00
by the time you divorce half of everything you own
that's my take
the student sounded jealous ...
this is extreme but look at the economics
Hooker $ 20 - $1000
Pros : variety, no games, no attachment, she works around your schedule
Cons : possible health implications
Dating : 3 dates x $ 100.00 = $ 300 for possible peck on cheek
Pros : you have an excuse for not chasing women
Cons : too many to mention
for the busy mature professional sugardaddy/hooker seems a better investment of time and money,
lets not kid ourselves either everyone knows the longer you're with a chick the higher the cost for the poon
1st month per unit cost for ***** approx $ 55.00
1 year per unit cost approx $ 212.00
by the time you divorce half of everything you own
that's my take
I wouldn 't call her a gold-digger. It's an arrangement of convenience, they both get something they want out of this, no one is fooling anyone. If she was leading the dude on by making him think he had a real chance with her and was milking his AFC ass, then I would call her a gold-digger.
Nothing secretive going on here (other than he's banging another woman who is not his wife). More power to both of them.
Nothing secretive going on here (other than he's banging another woman who is not his wife). More power to both of them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I'm getting my wife up on that site tonight.
What's the Link?
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